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Forums - General - what would you do if your best friend said "you have always hurt me"?

because my friend, who I planed on being with forever said that, and I'm just wondering, I told her nothing will ever be the same and we should be strangers?

now I feel like having no frineds and not smiling and laughing ever again



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thanks for all your help and support I knew I was alone



Whoa, no need to be so depressed, what I found in life is, friends come and go. If you get attached fair enough, but I rarely get attached to friends, at my age in particular, 18. I have a few close friends and associates. What did you do to her then? If this was a guys only situation I probably would have went "Dude that's so gay."



Disconnect and self destruct, one bullet a time.

The first question I would ask would be "Why?", followed by "How can I make it better?"

If somebody who is your close friend says that, you've probably done something to upset them, but they ought to forgive you if you try to improve things.



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Kantor said:

The first question I would ask would be "Why?", followed by "How can I make it better?"

If somebody who is your close friend says that, you've probably done something to upset them, but they ought to forgive you if you try to improve things.

I would do the same thing. You should follow this advice.



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Yeah, you obviously did something to hurt that person and if you value the friendship (which you do otherwise you wouldn't be here in this thread) you'll determine what that is and make ammends (regardless if you think you're right or not).



The only thing you can really do is apologize. When she lets her guard down, dropkick her in the face.



badgenome said:

The only thing you can really do is apologize. When she lets her guard down, dropkick her in the face.

Priceless advice from Badge as usual x)



Disconnect and self destruct, one bullet a time.

badgenome said:

The only thing you can really do is apologize. When she lets her guard down, dropkick her in the face.

Ignore my earlier advice and go with this.



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Offer her a nice hot cup of harden the fuck up?

 

If you haven't done anything wrong she's probably just depressed, like proper depressed. So just kind of stick it out.