You cheating bastard

Ot: yes

Yeah actually. Its hard to stay with someone that did that to you. The embarrassment and disrespect you feel just eats away at you.

I actually felt obliged to cheat just so I didn't seem like a loser that lets this girl treat me like shit. I also did it with a girl she absolutely hates. So I gave her something to think about.

It really is...forgiveness isn't all it's hyped to be.

You were the one found posting with dsister's IP! >:[

Talkin' 'bout cheating. Hrmph. 

Never did. I treat him like I want to be treated. I wouldn't want to be cheated on so... It's that simple.

nope. i dont think i could ever forgive myself.

Well, a little backstory:  I didn't really have a girlfriend through high school and didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 years old.  I was always sorta shy (even though people seemed to like me and girls actually did try to talk to me).  I didn't plan to even have sex until I was married.  Now that we've gotten that out of the way...

Yes.  I've cheated.  Lord knows how many times with how many people.  At the time, I was able to convince myself that I was in love with the girl, that I was a victim, that I got engaged too quickly (my fiance was the third girlfriend I'd ever had), or whatever I had to tell myself to justify what I was doing.  At the time, it felt right.  Hell, sometimes, it felt pretty awesome. Now, I look at how I treated a girl that (AFAIK) never messed around on me, gave birth to my only child, and aside from being a little (by "a little", I mean "she'll probably murder me someday--I'm not kidding") jealous is more than I could have ever hoped for.  I have some interesting memories and a few lingering feelings but for the most part, I really wish I'd just been faithful from the beginning.

I just wanted to throw in that top part to say this:  No matter who you are, what you believe in, or how strong your moral convictions are, there is a possibility that you can stray.  19 year old d21lewis would have been shocked and appalled by the actions of 21 year old d21lewis.   And 40 year old d21lewis is going to grab a time machine and go back in time to molest 15 year old d21lewis.......but that is a story for another thread.

Well, it's not cheating if you're in an open relationship, and you both enjoy 3somes!

No offence dude but you obviously don't know what kind of person I am. Obviously I wasn't expecting anyone to know but when I say never, it's never and cheating just beyond me. And I can tell you right now that my gf wouldn't cheat on me either. Hasn't happened and never will. :D

No problem. It's nice to have that kind of confidence in your principles, maybe that's what I lacked the first time.