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Can you date girl that has alot of guys friends?

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bannedagain said:
Xbbjf9s said:

I was talking to this girl and friends come up in the conversation, she says that she has way more guy friends than female friends. At that moment my interest in her fell into an endless pit......was I wrong to lose interest in her?



No you weren't. usually in my experience girls with a lot of guy friends is usually getting nailed by atleast one  of those guys, if not more. One because I have been one of those guy friends and even when they had boyfriends they still wanted to get down. A girl and a guy usually find interest to talk because one or the other like the other.  Not only that, if a girl can't see that it makes there boyfriend uncomfortable and is just disrespectful to them. Then usually they are screwing someone else or don't have enough respect for other person.

say what you want but I have had a lot of girls. I dance good, Own a dj productions company and know a lot of people. I grew up with a street of players and I know what goes down when no one is paying attention. One because I nailed the cheerleader with a jock boyfriend. If it was one of my friends I have enough respect to say no and tell my boy. But if I don't know you, you better watch your bitch. Of course I'm going to say I'm only her friend then hit that sh-t later.

Guys really don't hang out with girls they don't want to screw and if they don't want to. you won't see them hanging out a lot.

In all situations  there is a reason why someone wants to be your friend.   money, drug friends, Friends with benefits,One likes the other, perks and of course a personality thing. Which if a girl is friends with a lot of guys, she enjoys the attention, getting hit on non-stop and the works. it's just a bad idea.

don't listen to these guys saying your stupid,your not. people just refuse to see why people do what they do. These are the same guys that Me and my buddies took out there girl when they where out of town. OH babe there just friends, sure I was and I loved the friendship every minute. It's happened so much and I've seen so much ho sh-t going on it's unbelieveable.

don't think your highclass girls are safe either. Those are the ones that act so stuck up until there at after hours and we all know what goes on then . I would have to say they are the worst because they lie about who they really are and what they do. Thats the girls that do the worst dirt. 

Find a girl that is honest up front, doesn't care to have all sorts of guy friends. if she wants to hang out with guys on the side while  your not around and has a problem with you feeling nervous or untrustworthy with it. she most likely cheats or is more likely to cheat. People on here want to not sound insecure, thats all bull.  Just believe me, I have had way over 100 girls, maybe 200 majority where not to be trusted, thats why I hit it and quiet it. Not that they are ho's but if you are looking for a partner be picky because you don't want to be the unlucky husband.

It's all about what you want, if you don't feel comfortable about a girl having tons of guy friends, don't date her. I wouldn't either. I have a lot of reasons why. I know a lot of girls like this and it's always the way they are. Maybe 1-100 is not on bull, the other 99 are.

My girl completely agree's with what I'm saying. She is a honest girl and is usually up my butt but then again some say she looks like cameron diaz and is a gamer. sh-t right now she is getting mad at gears of war 2. Here is a pic if you don't believe me.

 

@oldschoolfool sorry you read the horrible grammer I got going on today.

Yea I had a little to much fun and kinda makes you realise, man people are not to be trusted.



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normal but havent been in a relationship since ages.... last time was a one night stand with YERR MOM!!! lol :D u gotta admit i pwned there ^ and i aint trollin cuz it be true so u cant do anyting :D



Ok fine, maybe I'm wrong. Give this chick a chance to screw up before you rule her out. But please, for the love of God, don't give this woman your heart so readily. In society women are supposedly the selectors. But men have every right to be selective themselves. If you want a friend with benefits or hit it and quick it, fine. If you are looking for a relationship, proceed with caution. If I knew a chick had mostly guy friends, I doubt I would ever put a ring on her finger. I'm not about gamble 50% of my wealth, a lifetime of vaginamony and my progeny on a woman like that. Men should be more selective than ever in human history when it comes to mate selection.



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bannedagain said:
Xbbjf9s said:

I was talking to this girl and friends come up in the conversation, she says that she has way more guy friends than female friends. At that moment my interest in her fell into an endless pit......was I wrong to lose interest in her?



No you weren't. usually in my experience girls with a lot of guy friends is usually getting nailed by atleast one  of those guys, if not more. One because I have been one of those guy friends and even when they had boyfriends they still wanted to get down. A girl and a guy usually find interest to talk because one or the other like the other.  Not only that, if a girl can't see that it makes there boyfriend uncomfortable and is just disrespectful to them. Then usually they are screwing someone else or don't have enough respect for other person.

say what you want but I have had a lot of girls. I dance good, Own a dj productions company and know a lot of people. I grew up with a street of players and I know what goes down when no one is paying attention. One because I nailed the cheerleader with a jock boyfriend. If it was one of my friends I have enough respect to say no and tell my boy. But if I don't know you, you better watch your bitch. Of course I'm going to say I'm only her friend then hit that sh-t later.

Guys really don't hang out with girls they don't want to screw and if they don't want to. you won't see them hanging out a lot.

In all situations  there is a reason why someone wants to be your friend.   money, drug friends, Friends with benefits,One likes the other, perks and of course a personality thing. Which if a girl is friends with a lot of guys, she enjoys the attention, getting hit on non-stop and the works. it's just a bad idea.

don't listen to these guys saying your stupid,your not. people just refuse to see why people do what they do. These are the same guys that Me and my buddies took out there girl when they where out of town. OH babe there just friends, sure I was and I loved the friendship every minute. It's happened so much and I've seen so much ho sh-t going on it's unbelieveable.

don't think your highclass girls are safe either. Those are the ones that act so stuck up until there at after hours and we all know what goes on then . I would have to say they are the worst because they lie about who they really are and what they do. Thats the girls that do the worst dirt. 

Find a girl that is honest up front, doesn't care to have all sorts of guy friends. if she wants to hang out with guys on the side while  your not around and has a problem with you feeling nervous or untrustworthy with it. she most likely cheats or is more likely to cheat. People on here want to not sound insecure, thats all bull.  Just believe me, I have had way over 100 girls, maybe 200 majority where not to be trusted, thats why I hit it and quiet it. Not that they are ho's but if you are looking for a partner be picky because you don't want to be the unlucky husband.

It's all about what you want, if you don't feel comfortable about a girl having tons of guy friends, don't date her. I wouldn't either. I have a lot of reasons why. I know a lot of girls like this and it's always the way they are. Maybe 1-100 is not on bull, the other 99 are.

My girl completely agree's with what I'm saying. She is a honest girl and is usually up my butt but then again some say she looks like cameron diaz and is a gamer. sh-t right now she is getting mad at gears of war 2. Here is a pic if you don't believe me.

 


Sweet irony, nothing quite like a guy who calls out people for trying to not act insecure by letting their significant others have guy friends and then proceeds to list how many women he's been with and talks about how hot his girlfriend is.

I take it back. If my girlfriend had a male friend like you, I'd definitely have problems with her hanging out with "the guys". Then again, I'd never date someone who ran in that circle in the first place.

Back to the OP: every woman is different. Treat them as such. Some can be trusted, some cannot... just like anybody else.




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rocketpig said:
bannedagain said:
Xbbjf9s said:

I was talking to this girl and friends come up in the conversation, she says that she has way more guy friends than female friends. At that moment my interest in her fell into an endless pit......was I wrong to lose interest in her?



No you weren't. usually in my experience girls with a lot of guy friends is usually getting nailed by atleast one  of those guys, if not more. One because I have been one of those guy friends and even when they had boyfriends they still wanted to get down. A girl and a guy usually find interest to talk because one or the other like the other.  Not only that, if a girl can't see that it makes there boyfriend uncomfortable and is just disrespectful to them. Then usually they are screwing someone else or don't have enough respect for other person.

say what you want but I have had a lot of girls. I dance good, Own a dj productions company and know a lot of people. I grew up with a street of players and I know what goes down when no one is paying attention. One because I nailed the cheerleader with a jock boyfriend. If it was one of my friends I have enough respect to say no and tell my boy. But if I don't know you, you better watch your bitch. Of course I'm going to say I'm only her friend then hit that sh-t later.

Guys really don't hang out with girls they don't want to screw and if they don't want to. you won't see them hanging out a lot.

In all situations  there is a reason why someone wants to be your friend.   money, drug friends, Friends with benefits,One likes the other, perks and of course a personality thing. Which if a girl is friends with a lot of guys, she enjoys the attention, getting hit on non-stop and the works. it's just a bad idea.

don't listen to these guys saying your stupid,your not. people just refuse to see why people do what they do. These are the same guys that Me and my buddies took out there girl when they where out of town. OH babe there just friends, sure I was and I loved the friendship every minute. It's happened so much and I've seen so much ho sh-t going on it's unbelieveable.

don't think your highclass girls are safe either. Those are the ones that act so stuck up until there at after hours and we all know what goes on then . I would have to say they are the worst because they lie about who they really are and what they do. Thats the girls that do the worst dirt. 

Find a girl that is honest up front, doesn't care to have all sorts of guy friends. if she wants to hang out with guys on the side while  your not around and has a problem with you feeling nervous or untrustworthy with it. she most likely cheats or is more likely to cheat. People on here want to not sound insecure, thats all bull.  Just believe me, I have had way over 100 girls, maybe 200 majority where not to be trusted, thats why I hit it and quiet it. Not that they are ho's but if you are looking for a partner be picky because you don't want to be the unlucky husband.

It's all about what you want, if you don't feel comfortable about a girl having tons of guy friends, don't date her. I wouldn't either. I have a lot of reasons why. I know a lot of girls like this and it's always the way they are. Maybe 1-100 is not on bull, the other 99 are.

My girl completely agree's with what I'm saying. She is a honest girl and is usually up my butt but then again some say she looks like cameron diaz and is a gamer. sh-t right now she is getting mad at gears of war 2. Here is a pic if you don't believe me.

 


Sweet irony, nothing quite like a guy who calls out people for trying to not act insecure by letting their significant others have guy friends and then proceeds to list how many women he's been with and talks about how hot his girlfriend is.

I take it back. If my girlfriend had a male friend like you, I'd definitely have problems with her hanging out with "the guys". Then again, I'd never date someone who ran in that circle in the first place.

Back to the OP: every woman is different. Treat them as such. Some can be trusted, some cannot... just like anybody else.

Exactly. Well it's all true, so I did show off my girl. Love that girl, Have no feeling of being insecure with her. WHY? she don't go hang out with dudes and I'm the one always ontop of her list.  Don't worry I don't cheat so thats out of the question with your lady anyway. I'm almost 30yrs old, so yea I got some miles. I've left the fast lane.

If I was my old self hanging out with my girl I would most likely beaten the shit out of myself.

The point I was trying to make is people need to earn your trust not just be given it.  People all have different perspective's . 

Girls that have a lot of guy friends have a personality that mirrors that of a girl with attention issues. Personality Profiling is not fare but it does work and thats why the FBI uses it.

 



SmoothCriminal said:

I do date a girl with a lot of guy friends, and plan to marry her.

 

Oh yeah, and she lives half the country away. It'll all buff out, don't worry.

I bet most of her other guy friends like/love her to. You know what I am saying?

Anyway I agree with what most of the other guys are saying in here: hit it and quit it. Have your fun and just do not get to attached to it.

Do not be a love sick puppy dog. You are young and it is your time to have lots of fun and play the field. You are better off staying single and unattached. Divorce rate is like 50% and rising in some countries.

Do not marry the first brawd you have a fling with. There is a difference between love and lust. If the other person does not feel the same way as you well it will never work out. 

Humans just like most animals are not supposed to be monogamous that is unnatural. Get her drunk and nail it and then just leave it. Have fun and live your life to the fullest.

Peace out and keep it real, bro. You what what I am saying?



Yeah, you can, but it won't last. At all.



Beware of stripper/prostitute/gold digging ladies. They are only in it for the money/material items or whatever they can get from a sugar daddy. They are the ladies your mother warned you about and to keep out of your life. 



Xbbjf9s said:
NiKKoM said:

As a guy who has a lot of female friends... don't do it.. we can't be trusted!

I used to have alot of femle friends that were straight and it was not pretty lol. Now all my female friends are lesbians and my issues are a thing of the past.


If your friends all turn to lesbianism so easy, perhaps the issue isn't girls having male friends, but having friends at all.

The only way to make sure your girl stays faithful is to treat 'em like veal.

 

Or, you know, trust them.