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naruball on 24 September 2010
Stefan.De.Machtige said:
pokeclaudel said:

Well I'm starting a new job in a week and the receptionist and I seemed to really hit it off while I was there for the last two weeks trying to get a job there. Her attitude likes and dislikes seemed pretty compatible with mine and she's really funny and thinks I'm funny too. We met outside for lunch once just a random meeting. I would have usually already asked a girl out on an official date but there's one thing that's stopping me.

She's obese...like 250-300 pounds obese. If you just saw her face you'd think she's attractive but the rest of her body is really holding me back. I've gone with chuby girls before but never with someone that big. Usually when I see obese people I think no self-control espcially when I'm at the grocery store and there carts are full of cakes and cookies.

Would anyone go out with an obese person or am I just really shallow?

If you really like her, date her and help her lose weight. It could forge a bond to do so. In any way, an obese person has a big health problem.

I respectfully disagree. I dated a smoker and convinced myself that I could help him give up smoking but he never did. He seemed to like the idea at first and he tried a bit, but he never gave up, even after telling him that I hated it and it nearly killed me when I was 2, because both of my parents wouldn't stop smoking in the house. Although he said he loved me, I guess it was too much of an addiction.

I 'm pretty sure that it's the same with fat people. They might be willing to make an effort and still have insignificant results. My advice would be to be with someone for who they are and not who you want them to be. And no, you're not shallow, just not attracted to her. Since you both like each other you should be friends instead.



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d21lewis on 24 September 2010
Mr.Metralha said:

My mom was chubby and my father loved her.

*thanks pop*

 

Do your work. Be a man.


Oh, fat guys can get hot girls all day long.  I see it all the time.  One of my first calls when I was a deputy was with this fat walrus who was kicking his hot girlfriend out of the house.  He told her "I just wanted to show you I could do it."  My mind was blown!  This girl was so hot that I would have let her come live with me AND my fiance and I would have told my fiance she'd have to deal with it......hey!  What am I doing back in this thread!?

*Leaves thread*



d21lewis on 24 September 2010

^^^I misread the post.  My bad.

*Leaves thread*



cloud1161 on 24 September 2010

well i wouldnt date anyone who weighs more than me and im 180, so maybe we are both shallow.  working with someone you are dating can sometimes be a pain though.



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wfz on 24 September 2010
d21lewis said:
Mr.Metralha said:

My mom was chubby and my father loved her.

*thanks pop*

 

Do your work. Be a man.


Oh, fat guys can get hot girls all day long.  I see it all the time.  One of my first calls when I was a deputy was with this fat walrus who was kicking his hot girlfriend out of the house.  He told her "I just wanted to show you I could do it."  My mind was blown!  This girl was so hot that I would have let her come live with me AND my fiance and I would have told my fiance she'd have to deal with it......hey!  What am I doing back in this thread!?

*Leaves thread*


I don't know if it's wrong that I read every single one of your posts with Zap's voiceover.

 

What I do know is wrong is that it fits perfectly every time... And now it's starting to weird me out!



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Mr.Metralha on 24 September 2010
d21lewis said:

^^^I misread the post.  My bad.

*Leaves thread*

I have only seen once a fat man with a hot wife. And she was the rich one in the relationship. I'm still looking for an answer to this day.



Oria on 24 September 2010

My first love was chubby, she weighed about 100kg. I didn't care, she was beautyfull to me. If you like her character, go for it. In the long run, personallity is all that matters. Now I've gotten fat (80kg) and I have a skinny girlfriend. How things change :p.



P_chan on 24 September 2010

P_chan says fat girls need love too! Give it a chance.

 You can always be friends if you don't like her that much



Joel12345 on 24 September 2010
Mr.Metralha said:
d21lewis said:

^^^I misread the post.  My bad.

*Leaves thread*

I have only seen once a fat man with a hot wife. And she was the rich one in the relationship. I'm still looking for an answer to this day.


girls are mythological beasts 

they like personality they don't go for looks,although it helps,a shit load of girls love six packs :(



P_chan on 24 September 2010
Joel12345 said:
Mr.Metralha said:
d21lewis said:

^^^I misread the post.  My bad.

*Leaves thread*

I have only seen once a fat man with a hot wife. And she was the rich one in the relationship. I'm still looking for an answer to this day.


girls are mythological beasts 

they like personality they don't go for looks,although it helps,a shit load of girls love six packs :(

I wish my boyfriend had a 6 pack, he only has a 4 pack. He needs to work on the bottom two. :(