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pokeclaudel on 24 September 2010
hunter_alien said:

IMO you are not shallow. I wouldent have a problem with a chubby girl, but that is just way to much. So no, I wouldent date her. Just lay back IMO, and dont get her hopes up


Yeah I guess that'd be the best thing I can do. But she's the receptionist so I'd see her everytime I have to go to work. If only she was like hundred pounds lighter then everthing would be awesome.

Maybe I should follow d21lewis and just have one go with her. You got to try everything atleast once.



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-PaNdOrA- on 24 September 2010

Who knows, maybe she just needs the motivation to lose weight. You being with her might motivate her to look her best.

However, it might backfire and she could gain even more weight :o



d21lewis on 24 September 2010
zgamer5 said:
d21lewis said:
zgamer5 said:
d21lewis said:

I wouldn't date her but I'd have sex with her in my patrol car at the recreation department  parking lot after 2am if she was the best i could find and it was still 2008.

*hangs head in shame*


could you have asked leo J?


He was banned.........

*hangs head in shame*

Actually, now that I think about it, I lost my virginity to a chubby girl.  She wasn't 300 pounds or anything but she was definitely fat.  We had a good time together and I dated her for about a month despite my sisters mocking me.  Plus, she was freak-ay!  But after she trained me in the arts of making love to a woman, I got the attention of a 29 year old Sandra Bulloch (young Sandra, not old Sandra!)  look-a-like named Lori and I broke up with my chubby girlfriend (If you can call moving and not telling her where I went or giving her my phone number) and never looked back.  So, yeah.  I can see it.

-Edited for clarity-

so basically you went out with chubby girls until you where what 25?

*hangs head in shame*

gamers are better then this!


Lost my virginity at the age of 21.  It was April.  By the end of that year, I had four different girlfriends (29 year old Lori, 28 year old Lisa, and 25 year old Maria--my fiance---All were hot!) .  Only the first one was chubby (19 year old Angela).  Of course, I've had a few more since then (chubby, hot, black, white, young and old).

-I've said too much and since it's really easy for me to say too much more, I shall exit at this time.

*exits thread*



Stefan.De.Machtige on 24 September 2010
pokeclaudel said:

Well I'm starting a new job in a week and the receptionist and I seemed to really hit it off while I was there for the last two weeks trying to get a job there. Her attitude likes and dislikes seemed pretty compatible with mine and she's really funny and thinks I'm funny too. We met outside for lunch once just a random meeting. I would have usually already asked a girl out on an official date but there's one thing that's stopping me.

She's obese...like 250-300 pounds obese. If you just saw her face you'd think she's attractive but the rest of her body is really holding me back. I've gone with chuby girls before but never with someone that big. Usually when I see obese people I think no self-control espcially when I'm at the grocery store and there carts are full of cakes and cookies.

Would anyone go out with an obese person or am I just really shallow?

If you really like her, date her and help her lose weight. It could forge a bond to do so. In any way, an obese person has a big health problem.



In the wilderness we go alone with our new knowledge and strength.

wfz on 24 September 2010

You need to have an intense emotional and physical attraction to each other in order to have a really amazing relationship, imo. ^_^

It's not shallow to date girls you don't find attractive, that's a stupid accusation. You might get called shallow for dating a girl ONLY because she's cute, even if you hate her personality, but that's a completely different story.

Find someone who you share an intimate physical attraction and mental attraction with. It won't just be sparks; flames will fly all over the place.

And that is true love!

And it's something worth waiting for and finding. Trust me. <3



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pokeclaudel on 24 September 2010
Stefan.De.Machtige said:

If you really like her, date her and help her lose weight. It could forge a bond to do so. In any way, an obese person has a big health problem.


That like never happens in real life. Besides all the chuby girls I've been with never wanted to lose any pounds. Whenever I did something physical like play sports or go biking or something they never came along. Obese girls wouldn't be any different.



SamuelRSmith on 24 September 2010

Just date her, and make sly jabs. Break her spirit, and introduce her to the art of self-induced vomiting. Tell her that's not healthy, but neither is obesity...

Eventually, she'll get the idea.

 

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But, on a serious note. If you like her, date her. I can't personally say that I will ever date an obese chick... but I haven't found one that I find attractive, yet. If I did, who knows? Besides, you never know, she might lose weight in the long run, and... if you don't intend on sticking it out in the long run, what the fuck does it matter if she's fat, anyways?



Stefan.De.Machtige on 24 September 2010
pokeclaudel said:
Stefan.De.Machtige said:

If you really like her, date her and help her lose weight. It could forge a bond to do so. In any way, an obese person has a big health problem.


That like never happens in real life. Besides all the chuby girls I've been with never wanted to lose any pounds. Whenever I did something physical like play sports or go biking or something they never came along. Obese girls wouldn't be any different.

Well, it is true that obese people have a underlying reason for being obese. Dealing with that could be very difficult.

Though, I don't believe for a second that someone would being fine with being fat.



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NiKKoM on 24 September 2010

I think we should see a picture first before we give the good advice right guys?



 

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Mr.Metralha on 24 September 2010

My mom was chubby and my father loved her.

*thanks pop*

 

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