Honestly, the illegal abortion that Demi Moore's character was having in the first 1/3rd of If These Walls Could Talk is by far the most grousome scene I have ever seen in any movie. I stopped watching the movie after that 'cause I was nauseated and could barely stand up.

You're lucky 'cause you'll never have to worry about getting a vasectomy. That whole procedure scares me (though I understand it's a standard one, I generally geat freaked out by medical procedures anyway).

incorrect... "precum" only will have sperm if you haven't urinated since the last ejaculation (you should urinate if possible after sex as it helps prevent infections especially in women) I did some research on that because I thought I had pulled out unporn-like it's actually just lubricant.  It's not sexist it's just that I don't want to go grey earlier then I have to... and nothing will cause a father to go grey faster then a young girl romping around with boys

I have a six year old sister and she's already chasing after boys. I know what you mean.

Wouldn't it be way easier to just go for in vitro fertilization if you actually want a child (leaving aside whether you'll be super happy or slightly less happy) and have such a problem (while still having alive sperm)?

I think most people's precum doesn't contain sperm cells though, and usually some immobile stragglers. The chance is much lower than the chance of the guy simply pulling out too late. Anyway, that really should be up to the girl, IMO, at least as far as pregnancy is concerned. If you're both clean and she's on the pill, no big deal.
If you don't know whether both of you are clean.. well, pulling out or not matters much less there.

I did not know that. Thank you for sharing that info.

I thought I'd barf while watching a regular birth once (not live obviously, and I didn't watch all of it). So yeah... won't be one of my concerns almost for sure. I know it's still one of the greatest things in nature... thanks to which I'm here too, but frankly even as someone who is very unlikely to come too close to the whole affair, I hope science can one day take full charge of the whole fetus thing.

Have two friends who went for vasectomy though (both married and with some kids, decided with wife that it was enough), and they said the idea felt very scary, but the actual operation nothing much and recovery time was super short. Though I don't think it's even freely available everywhere.

Honestly, I'm too scared of having unprotected sex. The only reason why is b/c I might accidentally pop and 9 months later I'm a dad. I not ready to take care of any kids right now.

My wife and I started having unprotected sex a few months after we started having sex (this was YEARS before we married btw). That is why you stay monogomous and get on birth control. She took 'the shot' which lasted 6mos at a time and had a 99.99% effective rate, far higher than almost anything else.

Now we've had 3 kids since we've been married and I got myself fixed.

I don't even remember what a condom feels like.

Additional info, we met in high school and 'dated' for 8 years before we married and that was in 2000. We started getting freaky 6mos after we started dating as I was her first, and only, partner.

All you kids on this site should learn from this. We were able to have all the fun we wanted and not risk our lives from drugs or teen pregnancy. We had kids after college when we were financially ready to raise them. Don't be stupid, in America you can go down to a clinic (planned parenthood) and get an anonymous birth control option that will ensure you don't get preggo. Then as long as you in a monogomous relationship you'll be ok. You start jumping in and out of different pants, then you better take other precautions as some of those STDs will kill ya.

Very inspirational, sir.

Nope, and I'm in a 6 year-old relationship. Granted, we both dread the though of having children at such a young age (I'm 23 and she's 22) and we don't have that many chances to be intimate, but even then we take all necessary precautions.