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NiKKoM said:
sapphi_snake said:

My cousin one had sex with his ex without using a condom. They used on of those calendar based methods. Don't remember how that works.

Kids.. we need to teach them everything.. :) :

The "safe" days are 3, 2 and 1 days AFTER her menstration... Ovulation (the risky period, when egg leaves the ovaries and is ready for fertilization) takes 14 a 15 days before her menstration.. Sperm can survive 5 to 7 days in her so you lose 22 days of sex in a month... play it safer and you'll lose 26-28 days.. hench you have 3 days when you can have sex... but no girl has her menstration period that regular that you can be truly safe if she doesn't use birth control... heck even with Birth Control it's not 100% safe.. scared for kids? put a cap on!

Dank u oh great sex ed guru. I knew that thing was risky.



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I used to always use protection but one time this girl got me  all worked up and climbed on top of it when I wasn't wearing one.  The very next time I had sex, I couldn't orgasm with a condom on.  From that point on, I either had to take the condom off or I just never wore one at all.  And for a while there (2003-2009) I was pretty much a whore.  My reputation is still shit in my hometown and I admit that some of the girls I was messing with were not the kind you'd want to bring home to mother.

My last job (as a cop) and my current job (nuclear security officer) required constant physicals, blood tests, and urine tests and it turns out that I'm clean.  For a while there, I was scared shitless.  And the whole time (except for a period when she left me from 2008 to 2009), I was coming home to the mother of my child and putting her at risk, too.  I'm very lucky that she came back AND that I didn't wind up killing us both.



d21lewis said:

I used to always use protection but one time this girl got me  all worked up and climbed on top of it when I wasn't wearing one.  The very next time I had sex, I couldn't orgasm with a condom on.  From that point on, I either had to take the condom off or I just never wore one at all.  And for a while there (2003-2009) I was pretty much a whore.  My reputation is still shit in my hometown and I admit that some of the girls I was messing with were not the kind you'd want to bring home to mother.

My last job (as a cop) and my current job (nuclear security officer) required constant physicals, blood tests, and urine tests and it turns out that I'm clean.  For a while there, I was scared shitless.  And the whole time (except for a period when she left me from 2008 to 2009), I was coming home to the mother of my child and putting her at risk, too.  I'm very lucky that she came back AND that I didn't wind up killing us both.

Isn't that the same job that Homer Simpsons had?



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

yes but stopped...learned a lesson from a friend who now has himself a child(cute kid though)

EDIT: just to make sense he was eighteen at the time, still in highschool, had no job, and it ruined his(and her) college plans



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I've never used a condom!



Sig thanks to Saber! :D 

nope we always play safe



Question: If one were to get a rash everytime one uses a condom what type of doctor should one go see? 'Cause it's hard to have sex when one's dick burns like crazy



"I don't understand how someone could like Tolstoy and Dostoyevsky, but not like Twilight!!!"

"Last book I read was Brokeback Mountain, I just don't have the patience for them unless it's softcore porn."

                                                                               (The Voice of a Generation and Seece)

"If you cant stand the sound of your own voice than dont become a singer !!!!!"

                                                                               (pizzahut451)

sapphi_snake said:

Question: If one were to get a rash everytime one uses a condom what type of doctor should one go see? 'Cause it's hard to have sex when one's dick burns like crazy

That sounds like an allergy to rubber. Any docter i would think. 



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It's usually allergy to latex, though there's always the possibility it's due to some lubricant/spermicide or whatnot. Try polyurethane ones, and there are probably other materials as well.
I don't think a doctor can do much aside from find out whether it's a latex allergy in the first place... and afaik, if you have that, you have it and that's that.

As to the OP question... yes. Only in my current relationship, about an year and a half into it.