I asked God for a sign and this is what I came up with:
Control 1 person, in real time, using RPG elements (ie: Zelda/Alundra): Action RPG
Control a party and use RPG elements (leveling up, quests, etc.) (ie: Final Fantasy/Grandia): Traditional RPG
Control an army, and battle other armies (ie: Valkyria Chronicles/ Herzog Zwei): Strategy RPG
I'm sure someone will break my definitions in about 30 seconds (or say, "who do you think you are, d21!?) and for that reason, I'm leaving this thread ignorant and happy!