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radiantshadow92 on 13 February 2010
d21lewis said:
Because the person I'm with is infinitely better for me than the person I love. The person I love will probably end up dead or something in the next five years. My fiance is like a candle that will burn for a long time. My ex is like a flare that burns intensely for a little while.

I made the right choice, though. And I have my memories. And that's all I have to say.

thats a brave desicion man good for you, maybe its not the right thing to do, but its the best thing



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Arius Dion on 13 February 2010
leo-j said:
I love myself more than I love my PS3

I always knew you were a narcissistic individual! .

Actually that's not such a bad thing to love ones self.

As for the OP. Nah. Not in love and loving it. I can make level headed decisions, focus on establishing myself and reaching my goals..And even more shallow than Leo j, I can date as many women as I can handle. Bachelor for life my friend lol.



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Signalstar on 13 February 2010

I love someone who I haven't seen or spoken to in a year. Finding it hard to let go =(



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tarheel91 on 14 February 2010
Signalstar said:
I love someone who I haven't seen or spoken to in a year. Finding it hard to let go =(

Similar situation to me (well, I continue to talk to them regularly, but still)?

This is basically me (Embedding disabled):

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUhCKFNuj3Q



Signalstar on 14 February 2010

Wow that vid was the perfect description of me.



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senseinobaka on 14 February 2010

LuStaysTru said:
@ seph
I mean romantic love

@cougarman
in lust is fun for now but leaves you feeling empty later

This may be part of the problem. By definition romantic love does not exist. Romanticism is unrealistic hyperbole, and striving for that is vanity.

In order to really find love; I hate that saying... In order to really forge a loving relationship that will be successful; you will need to 1st develop a realistic understanding of yourself. In other words define your ego (which includes your goals, wants, needs, lifestyle, and finding personal happiness/fullfillment). Then the 2nd step is to start searching for someone who complements and is compatible with you. Its important to understand that "Romantic Love" will ultimately leave you as empty as "Lust."

The biggest mistake people make is that they try to define their happiness and fullfillment with another person and switch those two steps around. But to be fair, that notion is perpetuated with the asinine culture of romanticism. This valentine's holiday is a good illustration of that.

 

So to summarize your OP questions:

I am in a very loving and meaningful relationship with my wife.

Romantic Love doesnt exist and seeking it can cause problems

Love does exist, but to obtain it requires growing as an individual and being able to truly identify what would make a good partner for you.



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damkira on 14 February 2010

Yes... I'm in love with AngelFire18 :)

 



KingFate on 14 February 2010

Nope, I am not the "love" type, but if it works for you give it a go, I guess.



PSN ID: KingFate_

koyotecat on 14 February 2010

Yeah the girl I'm with right now is the perfect for me. She was even wearing a Super Mario Bros. shirt when I met her. Funniest thing is how we met was when we were at school, everyone was being sorted by birthday and she's only a day younger than me.



FaRmLaNd on 14 February 2010

Nope. Single