Well, I'm not a jealous type, so I don't really care who she hangs out with.
Hmmm...so you think I'm prolonging her suffering? Do you think I'm being mean by trying to continue the friendship??
Oops, I was actually under the impression that she was the one who came up with the end to end the relationship... Guess I was wrong about that part. ;)
If you were the one who came up with the idea to split up and suggested staying friends, then yes, I would indeed suggest stepping back from that idea for a while, if you actually care about her, because it's selfish.
About not being jealous... I think that's all relative. If you would see her right now making sex to another guy, I'm sure even the least jealous guy wouldn't really enjoy the sight. On the other hand, it's always much easier to deal with something like that for the person who did the split-up.
Yeah you got it now.
And yeah, I think you're right. I do kinda feel like when we hang out it's making her sad. I'll indeed try to give her some more space until she's feeling stronger. Thanks for the advice. I'll pull back a bit.
But yeah, actually if I saw her having sex...(I'd think it was hott).