| bdbdbd said: But the female characters are the female fantasy. Problem with Leia and Padme is that they're side characters. Rey on the other hand is Elsa in Star Wars universe. People like Leia and Padme because they're believable. Whether you like damsell in distress or not, female fantasy is that someone who they love will save them just like male fantasy is to be the hero. |
| bdbdbd said: Actually I had by pointing out that men don't have any problems with the chores after they're divorced. Also, if you follow what men say that what they do is never good enough for women and women say men don't do good enough job. And here's the catch: you do the chores in the household when a woman wants to, not tomorrow when there's time for it, but they have to be done today, because she thinks there's too much dishes, too dirty, sheets need to be changed and so on. There are two people in a relationship and if you want both to participate, you need to find the time from both of your schedule. If you want both to clean next sunday, you agree on it a week earlier, not argue about it a day before. |
| JRPGfan said: Again, because of gender rolls. |
What makes these things ironic, is that a lot of these things are cultural issues that you guys are feeding into.
People having your same mindset, are causing the same issues that you're complaining about.
You are arguing men and women are fundamentally different - have different skills and interests, while complaining that society tends to assume that mothers will be better parents (because women are fundamentally more interested in raising kids.)
