bdbdbd said:
Actually I had by pointing out that men don't have any problems with the chores after they're divorced. Also, if you follow what men say that what they do is never good enough for women and women say men don't do good enough job. And here's the catch: you do the chores in the household when a woman wants to, not tomorrow when there's time for it, but they have to be done today, because she thinks there's too much dishes, too dirty, sheets need to be changed and so on. There are two people in a relationship and if you want both to participate, you need to find the time from both of your schedule. If you want both to clean next sunday, you agree on it a week earlier, not argue about it a day before. |
If you click thought that thing I sent you with surveys instead of vibes you'll see that even dudes polled agree that women do the bulk of the housework. They have different views, but not enough to change the general conclusion.
I can't argue against your past relationship issues and anecdotes. I'm married and do about half of the chores (child and house) because I think that's what being an adult means when you both work. So there, you have one experience and I have another. Now maybe we can talk about stuff with evidence to back it up.
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