I have an experiment for you. Play with the swich pro controller for an hr. Play for the dualsense for an hr. Get a good feel for the grip where your hand sits, feel the buttons. Then switch over to the series x/s controller.
What you'll notice is a cheap plastic feel on the xbox controller in comparison to the other 2 that feel premium and with a more heft to it. Then next the sensation of the buttons , feel cheap in comparison. Not as satisfying to press, and then ofcourse the clicky clack sounds each press makes gives a feeling of cheap made ones. This is way more evident at night when your gaming in bedroom and your wife starts complaining, and your left with no choice but to switch to another console.