I second MGSV and TLOU2 for third person games.
I don't play a ton of FPS's, but I remember COD4 feeling just so 'right' when I played it, whether on console or PC. It had just the right balance of weight and responsiveness for a mainstream shooter. Subsequent entries seemed to become more and more weightless over time, not that I played every one. I definitely prefer slower paced, more methodical shooters these days, but still look back on COD4 fondly.