Quality of the laptop itself, your use of it, fan conditions etc, all play a factor. A 5-year lifespan seems pretty normal, especially if it's not high-end or has had heavy use.
I've had my current laptop for over 3 and a half years. It will be four years in May. I've used it heavily, and I'll probably replace it this year or next year.
Lifetime Sales Predictions
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