MJ clearly had mental health issues that were never addressed or taken seriously by anyone.
He was groomed from an early age by his dad, he never had a regular child's life, and he was never comfortable in his body or with his identity - hence the plastic surgeries and skin whitening.
The man is dead and cannot defend himself. He may or may not have done shit, but I put the largest blame on the parents of anything did happen.
Ultimately, as a parent, if you had heard some shit, you wouldn't care if its rumours etc. This is your child your speaking off and I wouldn't let my child anywhere near any such persons home. For parents to okay it, it is for me as bad and stupid as committing the act itself, by sending their child to the dragons den. MJ had his mental health, but what excuse to the parents have other than stupidity and greed?
It seems like people lose all sense of logic when it comes to celebrities. You even see it now when women worship singers, actors and even reality TV stars.