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Immersiveunreality on 10 January 2019
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SpokenTruth said:
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I stare at women and I never say a word to them.
Wearing dark sunglasses makes it less obvious.
I do not need to ask women out just to be rejected endlessly and no reason given.
Dark_Lord_2008 said:

I knew at 16 I had the intuition and insight that all women will never accept me.

So far I have been proven right not to waste time asking women out.
They will always say no and they will never give me a chance.
I know women would always say no and never give me a chance and no point trying and failing.
I do not say hi or smile when random women say hi or smile.
It must be a cruel joke and I just walk on by and ignore them.

Stop this.  ALL of this.  You make massive presumptions about women and then blame your problems with them based on those presumptions.

How the hell can you say no women would ever talk to you when you have sworn off ever talking to them?  You haven't been proven right about women because you exist in your own self-fulfilling prophecy.

"I do not need to ask women out just to be rejected endlessly and no reason given."?  Can I have some of that mind reading power?  Get over yourself for 5 minutes, look into some of the excellent resources that I and others have given you and get some help.  You keep saying you've accepted your situation but you haven't accepted a damn thing.  You are still in anger, bargaining and depression phases of grief.  Acceptance requires that you are content with your situation and you damn sure aren't.  Worse is that your situation is largely a fictionalized reality you've made up.  YOU have chosen to live in a world where there is an absolute and universal rejection of you by women.  You have manifested your own fiction borne from your insecurities and realized through a projection u[on women of your own rejection of yourself.

Get help.

He does not know but he means well and when a person is scared for social interaction in such a high amount that just talking to a women feels like hell then i find it understandable he just wants to avoid it but yes he thinks about it the wrong way.

He did not choose to be what he is and the stress/panic about small/big uncontrolled things will never go away,people in this thread that think autists can rearange their brain to start thinking "normal" have no understanding of it at all and everyone thinking like if they can overcome stress then autists should too but they dont know how stress works differently for them.

He has a negative view on humanity as a whole and considering situation no one should feel offended about that and his case, a small amount of people with samelike experiences to chat with would be a good beginning but do not even start thinking about the rest and none should push him for that.