| Cobretti2 said: I like how a few fake profiles come out to write some dribble because their partners are probably on the forum reading their real accounts lol After reading more of the comments here is a quote from a great man. "Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard ya hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done! Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! " |
That guy sounds very wise. He must be an intellectual or something :p
OT: I guess there are many reasons for staying single but "giving up on women" is just wrong. I've had my fair share of bad experiences but I also have a wonderful girlfriend and met many amazing women. I get that you feel down at times and rejection hurts but not giving up is attractive and makes one grow as a person. There is a lot you can do about your body if you feel unattractive physically. Lifting weights three times a week is going to change the way women react to you a lot and you can do that no matter your age. Don't start with huge goals, change one little thing a day and slowly things will start to come together. Make change manageable, take it slow and steady.
And yes, there are bad women out there but the majority of women are normal beings. Stay away from the crazy girls but don't lose hope on all women. There are a lot of absolutely amazing women out there - I genuinely can't believe at times how great my girlfriend is lol and she thinks the same way about me - even though I'm a flawed person just like everyone else and don't have a million dollars in the bank.
And one last thing: Do NOT think of online dating as representative of real life! Women are way nicer in real life if you approach them.
