The American family is falling apart

[sundin13]

CrazyGamer2017 said:

sundin13 said:

So we are just sliding right into victim blaming? Like domestic violence boggles your mind so much that you are basically saying that it is the woman's fault for marrying someone who raped her.

And they you just casually move into an analogy in which you compare marriage to someone owning goods.

Yeah, piss off mate.

Oh what's up your butt?

First you ignore my last line, I'm not against such laws and I am just arguing about the logic nothing more, second, read my signature and F*** Off.

No, that last sentence does not in any way excuse any of the things you said.

You cannot blame a woman for getting raped and then think that everything is fine because you say the man should get punished too. You are still saying that the woman is at fault for being raped. You have presented quite possibly one of the clearest examples of victim blaming I have ever seen someone seriously push, and again, right before using a metaphor comparing a woman to purchasable goods.

And you further double down later:

"But you said "I DO", so yeah, take some responsibility if you say "I DO"..."

Just let that sit for a moment. In this context, you just said "take some responsibility for GETTING RAPED".

There is no weaseling out of those statements. You can say "laws should protect the victim", but at the end of the day, you are still throwing up that asterisk which says "but it is still their fault".