Star Wars fans, help me settle a bet (Warning: TLJ Spoilers)

[KLXVER]

fory77 said:

KLXVER said:

but doesn't that kinda go against what the force is all about? 

idk man Anakin's mother was force-raped by a sith lord on the other side of the galaxy 

Well that explains why Anakin became so strong I guess, but he still had to train for years. Rey seems to just have been given it at some point. She could even best Kylo and Luke. It just seems a bit weird to me.