Vgchartz is getting harsher these days, doesn't take much to be blocked by users these days it seems ;). Anyway welcome to vgchartz I guess. From your list I like heavy rain, meyroid prime beyond good and evil, the portals and a few others. Considering the speach about woman in video games you should try Uncharted 4 it has some of the best and most realistic (female) characters out there.
Please excuse my (probally) poor grammar