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I had a co worker who stayed single. He had lots of cash, several expensive sports cars and a very large home. I know many who have had several kids and are flat broke and living paycheck to paycheck. Kids are nice and its rewarding to spend time with my nephew and niece. But its serious business.

In the end, no one can live your life for you but you. Relax. Things will work out the way they were supposed to when they are supposed to. As for your friend, I think she should consider grief counseling. I bet it must be really hard on her and she probably took things out on you when she didn't mean to, but this situation is life altering. I hope she finds her way.