RubberWhistleHistle said:
when he is confronted with confrontation, he always hides and doesnt answer his phone for weeks until everyone "forgets" whatever messed up thing he has done. i guess i really dont know why any of us put up with it. he does this to all his friends. my wife send him this text last night: "people always say that the best way to get over addictions and issues is to admit that there is a problem in the first place chav, it is obvious that you have a problem, and we feel like the only way for you to begin fixing your problem is to start admitting it. you have been able to sneak by without ever admitting what you do but it's time for you to face it so that your life and relationships can be more healthy. we know that you stole a mario game a little while ago and now 4 amiibos are missing. unfortunately, you are not welcome to our house until you admit and restore the items that you have taken. we understand that it might be uncomfortable for you to address the issue head on but we know the truth anyway and it would please us to see you handle it respectfully. do whatever feels most comfortable for you, whether you want to give us the items back directly or on the porch, but we need you to admit you stole from us before we can feel comfortable allowing you into our home again. we love you and we hope you do not hide from the truth so we can hang out with you again as soon as possible :)" |
You're a kind couple. I'm not sure how I would've reacted, I can't even think of my closer friends stealing from me.
The way you describe him it really sounds like he's got a problem. I hope that he'll trust you and open up.