archer9234 said:
A lot of these people are doing it for the response. I've seen this before where they just want to piss people off. Think of them as flamebait trolls on forums. They know what they're doing is not gonna get them what they want. But want to anger. |
I don't think so. I think these men just lack the modern social skills to be able to present themselves to women in any way.
And it's compounded by the fact that the woman is walking away so they figure they only have 2-3 seconds to say something (anything).
Honestly guys, unless you have some real game, approaching on the street just isn't a great way to go about it.
At a nightclub, bar, party, the gym, hell even the coffee shop, library, class room ... feel free to approach. Those are "safe" environments for a woman, but in the middle of the street as she's trying to get to work or go to the gym ... how is she supposed to know you're not some serial killer or something? If you are going to approach *first* you have to immediately show that you are non-threatening and not a weirdo.
Holding a door open for a woman or making a funny comment in line at Starbucks ... hey no problem. Saying "mmmm" or "hey girl" while coming up from the side of behind a woman ... that's a no-no guys. There's a difference here. And if you're going to say "wah, wah, how am I supposed to know" ... well maybe this is natural selection at play because if you don't have the social skills to know when it's a proper time to approach and how to approach, well then really you deserve to be single (that's harsh, but our animal brethern in the wild are not any better).
That is on *you* as a guy and I can accept that as a guy.
