When is VGChartz going to accept transsexuals?

[Daisy]

Euphoria14 said:

Daisy said:

I was talking about human rights in general and not about some cosmetic changes in here.

To answer your question, its the right to label yourself as the gender you are and im not talking about your born one. Society only accept the two main ones and its not right to force a transgender person in to the female category if this person dont feel like it. There is a big difference between being a born female and a transgendered person and we have a prime example in here when people talk about stuff they dont know shit about. Not every transgender has the wish to become a full woman and sadly there is no third gender for now which is accepted by society and its easy to say for bystanders "Why do you people demand extra rights or why dont you just accept the fact that you will never be this or that gender".. its the basic human rights that a lot of you "heterosexual" people take for granted which we have to fight for. So please dont say we demand something extra when you people dont have to deal with this bullshit every day and surely not only on the internet.

Apologies then as I was under the assumption you were referring to the the OP's request for gender changing in VGC profiles.

 

As for the rest of your post, I fully understand your stance. I grew up with with a brother for the first 21 years of my life who then told us all that he was transgender, although we always knew. Growing up I would always walk into my bedroom (that we shared) to find him wearing my sister's clothing.

Not sure how he is doing now though as he kind of cut himself off from the rest of the family after we helped him transition through it all and found him a nice place to live that has a strong LGBT community. Kind of feels like a kick in the nuts to be honest. He ditched a supportive family for the LGBT groups that I saw him on the news rallying with.

Sometimes its difficult for both sides. I dont know your brother/now sisters personally and how it was for her growing up and all that stuff but from what I can say is that sometimes even family can not fill the void which is there. Often times you have the need to talk to people from "your" community because they went through the same and understand your situation better. She can be real proud that she got you as a supportive family cause not a lot of us got that..and that she goes out and fight for not only her but the rights of the whole community is very noble of her.