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Alright, this has gone on far enough.

padib said:
 

I have nothing to hide, what particularly in his post did I miss and did you want me to address?

Or did you just want to bash me more?

You're problem here is that you are being accusatory. Ignoring others opinions in favor of your own, restraining yourself from borderline flaming not to remain civil but to continue the discussion further unconciously.

Before you argue any further, see if you truly understand what the others are trying to say. If you can provide your interpretations of their opinions and they agree with you then you do, if not then you should reconsider further.

Aura7541 said:
 

Then answer his questions for goodness sakes. Your rudeness is not getting you anywhere nor was it getting you anywhere for the past few days in various other threads, too. The fact that you, specifically, have a huge problem communicating with others sticks out like a sore thumb. You are reluctant to engage in constructive discussion and instead point the finger at other people when they have actually been constructive. I have never seen any other VGC user who has this huge of a problem with other users, so you really need to fix yourself.

Stop right there. Recognize that you are essentially vindicating Padib's beliefs, esseintially adding fuel to the fire. You do not need to pursue him our his attitude personally. If he refuses to understand, then you're just wasting your time, because he not only won't change but he is also proving to be intolerant and rude, despite claiming to be civil.

Tamron said:

You approached it entirely wrong, voicing an opinion is fine as long as you understand not everyone will agree with it - your error comes in the form of taking the stance of being completely defiant of arguments against your opinion to the point of belittling the views of those that brought said points to you, when Tachi made it very clear she would no longer discuss the topic with you, you couldn't even help yourselfbut take a stab at her and belittle the entire discussion by brushing off everything she said as "her misunderstanding", as such you are not having a polite and open discussion, you are enforcing your opinion, nothing more, nothing less.

Me not being the first person to point this out to you should be causing alarm bells.

I know it can be frustrating but the issue is one of mindset not substance. This is not the way to address a problem such as this. If Padib wants to change, he will, if not simply ignore him until he does. You can't use reason on someone who is being unreasonable.



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