JimmytheT said:
attaboy said:
I'm a relatively attractive, athletic guy. I think I have a decent personality, a good job, my own place, etc. Anyway, my last relationship came to an end and I found myself dating a fat chick via online dating. I didn't know she was fat at first, mind you. She used all kinds of camera trickery or something. She was always behind other people when she sent full body shots, laying down, or whatever. When we finally met, I was trying my best not to be shallow and, to my surprise, wound up having a really good time with her! She's got a great personality, a great job, and a lot going for herself, as wll. She's not orca fat but there are times when I look at her and I just don't like what i see. I'm afraid of what would happen if my frieds see me with her. I have sex with the lights off and often from behind because she just doesn't look like I wish she would. In the end, I guess I'm a shallow guy because her physical appearance is keeping me from wanting to pursue this anymore. She's really nice, thoughtful, and sweet so I don't want to say, "Don't touch me, you fat, fat, fatty!"
Any advice?
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Firstly, whilst I can respect not feeling attracted to someone and being honest with oneself, asking this kind of advice on this kind of website's forum tells me that you are almost certainly as fatuous and rebarbative in your day to day life as your opening subject line and post suggest you are.
Secondly, do this lady favor and be completely honest with her. If you still have not called it off, tell her that you are an individual who has teenaged priorities and that you are wasting her time (not yours, as yours is likely of far lesser value) by continuing a relationship that is an obvious farce behind her back.
Thirdly, if you are just looking for a vagina (or other orafice) to masturbate into when not at work or video gaming (the content of your first post suggests this is your only priority when it comes to women), then there are special dolls or even hookers if you are looking for a human experience that will in all liklihood be more cost effective versus ongoing dinners, movies et al.
Hope this advice from VgChartz's forum helps!
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