Blocking 2nd hand games doesn't hurt me too much. I've probably bought 2 or 3 used games total this gen, all of which were DS games that were not available new. It would be a pain because I bring games to friends' houses pretty often, but not a deal breaker.
Always on could be a dealbreaker though. My internet, though fast, drops fairly often, and if that affects even single player games it would be awful.
Personally if both consoles had those features, I would just continue sticking to PC gaming. Maybe pick up a wii u in a few years to buy all the must have games when it's cheap. It would take some really really good exclusives to get me to buy a ps4 or nextbox with always on drm. And no the sequels to the current exclusives the ps3 and 360 have will be nowhere near enough.
