I always thought 'growing up' was having the freedom to decide what one does with their life, and the time in it. So if an adult wants to play games, golf or wear daisy duke shorts, shouldn't they have the right to live as they choose?
If someone who says that they love you, but want you to give up something you love; then I would really question why you would want to be with someone like that. Plus how could anything but resentment grow when you give up something for someone else.
And
Was at a Wedding on 6-26-2011 where the couple me on World of Warcraft and have been together 6 years, living together for 3, and really happy.
So as long and someone isn't living as a parasite off someone else, I don't see the point.







