trasharmdsister12 said:
I agree with what d21 said about the earthquakes in Japan. I feel horrible and I want to do more but I'm in the busiest month of my life with my final set of final exams coming up and pitching the idea and final prototype of my giant undergrad design project next week. Yes, I feel guilty for overlooking the problems in Japan right now but besides donating money there isn't much I can do at this point. To tie into that, you did what you could about the situation. Letting her know is the first step to anything happen. A few years back I was in the same situation and after half a year I told her. She actually thought I was joking around and "played along" if you will. That moment must've been the worst in my life. I had to actually convince someone that I wasn't joking when I already felt hollow inside. When she realized it was the real deal things just got that much worse. Now the ball really is in her court. It's her turn to take it in and make a decision. If she sees what you're willing to offer and is mature enough to make an informed decision, things may go well. If not then there are any number of ways that things could go. d21 listed a few ways. It's now a wait and see thing. I'd say continue on acting the way you have around her. Don't neglect her, don't give her extra attention... if you do either of these things will get awkward and will probably only hurt your case. |
Thanks Squirtle :) and of course you too Zapp Branigan!
