So, I'm 21 and never had a girlfriend or kissed or held hands with a girl

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Chrizum said:

RageBot said:

1. Stop listening to your friends

2. Go out, try starting random conversation with girls about whatever, try to make them longer each time, and try and learn as much as you can about them.

3. Learn pickup.

4. Practice pickup

5. Become a fun, self-confident guy who a lot of pepole would like to hang out with.

6. By now you'll find someone that you like and that stands by your new standards.

You've got it all figured out haven't ya?

That is the general formula, however. I was practicing even when I was in a relationship just for the sake of practice.