Mass Effect 2 Love Interests (possible spoilers)

[Kantor]

Rainbird said:

Because you're so very blind apparently. I was playing the Paragon route, and I felt that being nice to women apparently meant flirting in some form sooner or later.

I've been nice to every female character in the game! Indeed, I've been nice to pretty much everyone except the colonists and the original Council, both of whom I brutally murdered >_>