Kasz216 said:
c0rd said:
S.T.A.G.E. said:
Technically his cousin isn't an asshole. He's done nothing wrong. For instance, which is worse....selling or trading away a gift you paid for and thought they would like or a gift you got for free and thought they would like? Truthfully.....it probably cost him less than a dollar to get it. He should be proud because he saved his cousin 300 on a console whichever way you slice it. The smile on his cousins face should suffice. A gift is meant to be given to either help or please the one you give it to....it's not done for your own intentions.
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I thought by illustrating the absurdity that way would have got the point across, but I guess not.
Let me put it in simple terms: the Wii was not an unconditional gift. It was only given under the condition that his cousin had more use for a second Wii than he did.
This isn't a birthday present we're talking about - if he gave him a Wii for a present and the guy ended up selling it, that's his business. It's the fault of whoever bought the Wii that he didn't buy a better present - I understand that.
I know how annoying this can be because this has happened to me a few times before, albeit in a smaller scale. For example, in videogames like WoW when loot/gear is distributed, and one ends up winning an item that they don't really need from some boss. They offer it to some person, asking, "Do you want / need this?" If the person responds yes, it's under the assumption that they have use for the item itself. People who later just go off and sell the item are looked down upon, for good reason.
The concept is to give the item to whoever would make the most use of it.
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Indeed. If my friend gives me something because I can make better use of it... then I just can't. I'm either keeping that, or asking my friend if he wants it back because I'm not going to use it anymore.
To just sell it is BS if I haven't cleared it with my friend first.
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I agree here with the part where if he didn't clear it with his cousin it cannot be taken well. It is important that they know before the exchange, especially if that cousin plays with you.
