Esmoreit said:
I think it's right, if done the right way and adequatly handled. getting spanked is usually more about the scare then it is about the pain itself. I always feared my fathers anger more then any spanking I got and that follow-up worked with me. Plus he always made up so i didn't fear him anymore, only my actions. For instance, I recall when I was 6 or so and at some point I left the gate door open while playing though my parents said I should always lock it. The result: My dad's bike got stolen. Off course he was cross, I got a slap on my ass and send to my room. He later came in, explaining the situation etc, hugged me and from that point what I learned was: Dad good, dad love me, leaving gate door open = scary stuff happening. It worked brilliantly! Plus, you know what generation was the first to not get spanked? The metrosexual generation. And for that I will beat the hardened chesthair out of my kid.
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very good answer and I agree (and yes I was spanked too), but what if you have a girl 
