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Men choose to remain single and give up on women?

They do not want to becom... 9 7.69%
 
They do not want to change! 12 10.26%
 
They do not need a woman'... 3 2.56%
 
They do not want to conform to society! 5 4.27%
 
They have busy life and d... 9 7.69%
 
They are a man-child and never grew up! 17 14.53%
 
They are regarded as a lo... 15 12.82%
 
Modern feminism double st... 19 16.24%
 
Other! 27 23.08%
 
They choose sex workers instead! 1 0.85%
 
Total:117

The dating scene in the US and Europe is completely different to Australia. At most bars and clubs in Australia guys go out with their male mates and girls go out with their females males. There is no dating culture in Australia. Most dating scenarios are set up by friends and family, if you do not have friends and family, dating is very hard unless you are a rich guy and can buy social connections.

https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/single-its-not-you-its-aussies-20160223-gn11o7.html

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 28 January 2019

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Dark_Lord_2008 said:

The dating scene in the US and Europe is completely different to Australia. At most bars and clubs in Australia guys go out with their male mates and girls go out with their females males. There is no dating culture in Australia. Most dating scenarios are set up by friends and family, if you do not have friends and family, dating is very hard unless you are a rich guy and can buy social connections.

https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/single-its-not-you-its-aussies-20160223-gn11o7.html

Did you read the whole article or just the headline lol?



 

 

"In my social circles, that is probably true, you don't really see men and women integrating on nights out. Even at our age, I don't see that social connectedness," he said.

Opening up about his own experiences, he said he would not usually be willing to just walk up to someone who caught his eye on a night out because she's surrounded by intimidating friends.

"There have been instances where it has happened," he said, adding, "You would need to know before you go over if it is worth it.

"It's not the fear of rejection, it's the lack of interest that they might have.

"Plus, you are not going to get someone one on one, because they are with their friends and they are also judging what you are doing. It's not about trying to talk to the person you like, it's also about the people they are with."

^ The article clearly supports my claim that there is no dating culture in Australia. It is not the same as Europe or America. Dating sites are a fad and a time waster and will not last and do not change anything.  Anyone can claim anything online and be anyone online.

When most guys never meet a single person on dating sites and only a minority of guys go on dates there is a big issue with the sites. There is a big issue when majority of guys paying to support everyone else going on dates on dating sites. I never paid for dating sites and I used fake profiles to see how they work and they were boring and predictable.

 

Last edited by Dark_Lord_2008 - on 28 January 2019

Try Bumble

Bumble is similar to Tinder except once you match, you can only chat if the woman instigates the conversation. So if you’re a male who finds it difficult to approach women, this app is definitely a winner for you!

The fact that the women can filter the conversations seems to weed out the creeps and losers.



 

 

https://www.meetup.com/en-AU/Single-Perth/


Q - Can I come along to events by myself?

A - Yes. And LOTS of people do (maybe even most people). BUT, the point of this group is that you won't be alone for long, as you will meet new friends within a matter of seconds :)



 

 

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Do you want advice or do you just want to keep coming up with excuses as to why you fail so you can continue the self-pitying monologues?



I LOVE ICELAND!

I never attend anything without back up. I am a very paranoid person and constantly checking out possible threats and I get overwhelmed by unpredictability. I am too old for those events because they are more for younger people 18 to 30. Meet up are a waste of time and I am not interested in hanging around a bunch of younger people and looking like an idiot.



If qualified experts could not help me. How could the unqualified advice from unqualified experts help improve my situation in life?
Some people are beyond help and at a young age, I accepted that my life was hopeless losing struggle that I can not change.
I am not going top accept advice from anyone who does not hold a degree in psychiatry, psychology or therapy and has years of experience and can relate from a similar position losing position in life. Some of us are born losers in life. It is hard accepting being a loser and there is nothing that can be done about it.



Dark_Lord_2008 said:
I never attend anything without back up. I am a very paranoid person and constantly checking out possible threats and I get overwhelmed by unpredictability. I am too old for those events because they are more for younger people 18 to 30. Meet up are a waste of time and I am not interested in hanging around a bunch of younger people and looking like an idiot.

unlike you i clicked the events and looked at people's profiles.

Most seem to be in the mid 30s-40s range



 

 

Try this maybe
https://www.news.com.au/finance/business/other-industries/fans-have-chance-to-win-one-night-with-adult-film-star-annie-lopez/news-story/dbe734825a50d5bc5ffb90688f2e0f6a

Or live here?
https://www.news.com.au/travel/world-travel/europe/inside-the-small-town-in-finland-where-daylight-lasts-four-hours/news-story/40ea91be3480e117223db5e53f3e3283