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Nope. I drop something super fast. Had alcohol problems with my dad for 20 years and a month later reconsiled with him when he was in rehab. The dude I once worked for that was so abusive in a job I could not afford to lose and the same job that helped lead to my heart issues of today. Forgave pretty much right away. Honestly the health issues lead to a better life for me anway. I could forgive a person in the same day or even minutes later. I don't try hard to forgive either...for whatever reason I just get over things fast. Dunno why just do. I don't forget tho. My memory is a steel trap.



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No, I'm generally not someone to hold grudges. It's too hard for me to stay continuously mad at someone, so I eventually try to patch things up with the person.



I will usually hold a grudge until the source of the grudge is taken care of, either through communication, change in viewpoint, or compensation.

Having said that, it takes a lot to bother me.  The act or other party has to be so far out of expected interaction that it is a personal statement against me.



Depends. I can hold long grudges towards institutions or companies who have broken my trust. But I'm generally forgiving of people, people deserve second chances and I would want the same treatments if I wronged someone.



Doubt its healthy to hold onto grudges.
Forgive and forget, at worse just ignore/avoid arse holes.



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Dog grudges against people just console providers.



yeah, I'm a pretty bitter person generally



I don't hold grudges, but I remember everything. I laugh almost everything off and I rarely get angry. I can play one of the most toxic games; League of Legends and have no problems saying nothing all game while other people get irrationally angry.

But remembering everything about real people, makes it difficult for me to justify someones goodness later. Almost everyone I lived with did me wrong at some point, and it is a reminder that I would rather forget tbh.



People who harm me will meet a terrible fate.



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i get over things pretty quickly. its just that other people want to drag things out forever and rope me back into things