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Yeah your update more or less confirms your scumbaggery!! Seems like your cousin knows what he's doing and I'm happy for him.



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FattyDingDong said:
drdante said:
FattyDingDong said:

Update:  A lot of people are wondering if I may be joking about the whole thing, unfortunately i didn't make it up and it all really happened. I wish I could go back and cancel the whole prank but I can't do that. I have tried contacting my cousin Jim and still no luck.. his parents told me that he doesn't want to talk to me or Tom. I just hope he is ok thats all i care about at this point.

How is it now? Any more update? 

Did you make it with your cousin?

I have tried numerous times contacting Jim and trying to talk to him but have failed miserably. He has deleted me(and Tom) from Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat.  This has really pissed me off because I was man enough to acknowledge my wrong doings and apologize but he refuses to even look me in the eye and hear me out. He is disrespecting me and Tom at this point we are both older than him by 3 or 4 years.  He has even told his parents not to accept my phone calls or reply to my text messages. Tom tried to contact Jim's only friend Chris and he has apperantly told him that he wishes to never see us again(according to Chris). So at this time I wont bother sweating over this thing anymore because I have done the right thing and apologized(numerous times) and if he chooses to be disrespectful and immature about it it's his problem.

 

After what you did to him you call him disrespectful? Who in their right mind would respect you after this?



You are a horrible person. I hope he doesn't speak with you ever again.



FattyDingDong said:
drdante said:
FattyDingDong said:

Update:  A lot of people are wondering if I may be joking about the whole thing, unfortunately i didn't make it up and it all really happened. I wish I could go back and cancel the whole prank but I can't do that. I have tried contacting my cousin Jim and still no luck.. his parents told me that he doesn't want to talk to me or Tom. I just hope he is ok thats all i care about at this point.

How is it now? Any more update? 

Did you make it with your cousin?

I have tried numerous times contacting Jim and trying to talk to him but have failed miserably. He has deleted me(and Tom) from Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat.  This has really pissed me off because I was man enough to acknowledge my wrong doings and apologize but he refuses to even look me in the eye and hear me out. He is disrespecting me and Tom at this point we are both older than him by 3 or 4 years.  He has even told his parents not to accept my phone calls or reply to my text messages. Tom tried to contact Jim's only friend Chris and he has apperantly told him that he wishes to never see us again(according to Chris). So at this time I wont bother sweating over this thing anymore because I have done the right thing and apologized(numerous times) and if he chooses to be disrespectful and immature about it it's his problem.

What a massive hyopcrite you are. So he's the disrespectful and immature one now after what you did? I applaud him for stepping up to you and your fellow condesending sociopath. You've done nothing but look down on him and even used him like some type of toy for your personal amusement. The two of you chose to test his breaking point and inevitably succeeded in doing so, what the hell did yo expect? An open arm that says "I forgive you for all the emotional and mental mistreatment you put me through"?





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FattyDingDong said:
drdante said:
FattyDingDong said:

Update:  A lot of people are wondering if I may be joking about the whole thing, unfortunately i didn't make it up and it all really happened. I wish I could go back and cancel the whole prank but I can't do that. I have tried contacting my cousin Jim and still no luck.. his parents told me that he doesn't want to talk to me or Tom. I just hope he is ok thats all i care about at this point.

How is it now? Any more update? 

Did you make it with your cousin?

I have tried numerous times contacting Jim and trying to talk to him but have failed miserably. He has deleted me(and Tom) from Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat.  This has really pissed me off because I was man enough to acknowledge my wrong doings and apologize but he refuses to even look me in the eye and hear me out. He is disrespecting me and Tom at this point we are both older than him by 3 or 4 years.  He has even told his parents not to accept my phone calls or reply to my text messages. Tom tried to contact Jim's only friend Chris and he has apperantly told him that he wishes to never see us again(according to Chris). So at this time I wont bother sweating over this thing anymore because I have done the right thing and apologized(numerous times) and if he chooses to be disrespectful and immature about it it's his problem.

The one being immature and disrespectful at this point is you. If you were truly sorry and had learned anything from this, you would gracefully bow out and respect his wishes after what you did instead of taking the easy route and having the fucking gall to put the blame on him to make yourself feel better.

Your self-justification is pitiable.

And no. Just apologising doesn't cut it. Not if you're just being selfish and trying to make yourself feel better about what you did by apologizing. Jim has every right not to want anything to do with you ever again, and you have no right to feel pissed off about that. If you really, only for a second actually had aknowleged your mistakes honestly you'd know that. He owes you nothing. least of all, respect. You gambled that away thoughtlessly.





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To understand what you did: Shy people are usually social outsiders. They are to some level used to being target of pranks and built some sort of emotional shielding. This mostly involve to not trust anyone and always expect to be target of a joke. What you did got past this defenses, so this time you really hurt him. This will make him even more defensive in the future and he'll probably trust people even less.

What you can do: apologize and wait. Maybe he'll never forgive you, maybe he will - in months or even years. So don't force any contact, but apologize regularly. The only one who might have a chance to talk to him right now is Ashley, but don't bet on it. And don't expect her to save your ass, the only thing she could possibly do is relieve some of the pain. But it is very possible he'll not talk to her too.

And you should say what you did to his parents. It is not unheard of that people commit suicide over such a thing or do other stuff, so you should fully explain what you did to his parents so they could react accordingly.

The good message: If you behave he might forgive you and you can be friends again - some years down the line.



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hahaha.. hahaha.. ow man.. classic.. thread of the year just because of FattyDingDong response about respect.. xD



 

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FattyDingDong said:
drdante said:

How is it now? Any more update? 

Did you make it with your cousin?

I have tried numerous times contacting Jim and trying to talk to him but have failed miserably. He has deleted me(and Tom) from Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat.  This has really pissed me off because I was man enough to acknowledge my wrong doings and apologize but he refuses to even look me in the eye and hear me out. He is disrespecting me and Tom at this point we are both older than him by 3 or 4 years.  He has even told his parents not to accept my phone calls or reply to my text messages. Tom tried to contact Jim's only friend Chris and he has apperantly told him that he wishes to never see us again(according to Chris). So at this time I wont bother sweating over this thing anymore because I have done the right thing and apologized(numerous times) and if he chooses to be disrespectful and immature about it it's his problem.

You see, that's the problem. Just because you're older than him doesn't mean you need the respect that comes with it, especially how awful you behaved towards him. And look who's talking of immature... Mr. Apologize-to-me-because-I'm-bigger-than-you. He deleted you from everywhere? It happens. It simply means he doesn't want you to bombard him with comments. It's not the end of the world. It's not like it's a permanent deletion. And good job blaming the victim just because him not apologizing to you doesn't make you feel better. You're better off not saying anything yet.

Like I said before: let the time heal the wounds. If his parents know everything in detail, you don't need to tell them anything anymore. Just give it time and maybe he'll approach you. Maybe. And if you feel guilty about everything, you should've thought about it before planning that shitty prank "for the lulz". Hopefully, you've learned for what you did.



It was no big deal until you told him. People and specially women are cruel and shallow, this was bound to happen to someone like him. He would actually learn how to doubt people, which is a good thing in both practical and philosophical sense(read Liar Game). But now he sees you as a thug. And probably thinks being an irresponsible delinquent is the right way to deal with women. You really fucked up.



You are one of the biggest fucking asshole's I have ever seen, and that's with myself included. You completely destroy this kid's heart, and now you demand him to act "mature" towards you! Keep this attitude up, and someone stronger than you will punch you in the face. Little gag joke's can be funny, but this certainly was no "prank". Shame on you! Hopefully your cousin doesn't speak to you for a long time! Maybe then you'll realize how much of a sad person you must be in order to do such a thing!



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