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kirby007 on 23 November 2014

just go practice on trash and be done with it



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trashleg on 23 November 2014
NiKKoM said:
trashleg said:


Yeah it sucks, huh? I'm never falling in love again


Always fall in love! But make sure the other one also falls in love with you! Never waste energy into a one sided relationship! It takes two people to do this:

Don't go in a relationship if you don't believe the other one will ever be able to lift you up

But what are the chances that I'll fall in love with someone who falls in love with me too? That's impossible.

Khan, enjoy your weekend. Don't wait. This is just the very start of what could be a friendship or a relationship, if you think too much about it the whole time you'll be way too emotionally invested if it comes to be casual friendship and nothing more. Take it easy, bud. And keep crafting your own adventures. 

(on a side note, I'm going to be seeing my ex next weekend. That's going to all kinds of weird). I'm hoping that you have some good news to report after thanksgiving!



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.
NiKKoM on 23 November 2014
trashleg said:

But what are the chances that I'll fall in love with someone who falls in love with me too? That's impossible.


It takes time.. The dance its longer.. There are a lot of people who say "if we don't get together you're never gonna see me again"... Trying to force a relationship.. Just being with eachother isn't enough.. You can't force someone to love you.. Which in the end will lead to meaningless relationships.. Its never gonna work. Too much icecream with a waffle isn't good. One day you'll find out.. When everything clicks together like a perfect blend of icecream and waffle creating something amazing together. And you will think "is this what NiKKoM talked about?".. Yes it is.. Yes it is



 

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Mr Khan on 23 November 2014
NiKKoM said:
trashleg said:

But what are the chances that I'll fall in love with someone who falls in love with me too? That's impossible.


It takes time.. The dance its longer.. There are a lot of people who say "if we don't get together you're never gonna see me again"... Trying to force a relationship.. Just being with eachother isn't enough.. You can't force someone to love you.. Which in the end will lead to meaningless relationships.. Its never gonna work. Too much icecream with a waffle isn't good. One day you'll find out.. When everything clicks together like a perfect blend of icecream and waffle creating something amazing together. And you will think "is this what NiKKoM talked about?".. Yes it is.. Yes it is

But you're also supposed to push them to dance with you? This is where it gets confusing. The "hunting" versus this line about not being able to force it (although i very much agree that you can't force it. The feeling is either there or it isn't, but where, then, does effort enter the equation?)



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NiKKoM on 23 November 2014
Mr Khan said:

But you're also supposed to push them to dance with you? This is where it gets confusing. The "hunting" versus this line about not being able to force it (although i very much agree that you can't force it. The feeling is either there or it isn't, but where, then, does effort enter the equation?)


The hunting is not about you going after them.. But to make them going after you.. Yes thats confusing.. Its basicly showing sides of you till she thinks; i'm may fall in love with this guy.. I want him..  You tease.. You push a little.. Till they push back.. You create, not force, a situation where the other person can get to know you for a bit and let them decide if they want to go forward with you.. its very easy to try too hard, which scares people away (sorry trash) 

You already asked to start the dance with her.. Its up to you to give her enough encouragement to keep the dance going.. you lead but there will be the time that she starts to lead.. And you let her.. Cause then you're really dancing together..

 

Ps: Iet her lower your hand to her butt.. You never force that..



 

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kirby007 on 25 November 2014

anyway to keep this flowing im debating to hit on a coworker, i usually try to avoid these situations but she just broke up and is looking for a fresh shoulder to cry on gehehehe



 "I think people should define the word crap" - Kirby007

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NiKKoM on 25 November 2014
kirby007 said:
anyway to keep this flowing im debating to hit on a coworker, i usually try to avoid these situations but she just broke up and is looking for a fresh shoulder to cry on gehehehe

Depends.. if her ex is een grote broeder met veel maties... Nope.. not worth the risk..



 

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kirby007 on 25 November 2014

an ex isn't an ex for nothing tho



 "I think people should define the word crap" - Kirby007

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NiKKoM on 25 November 2014
kirby007 said:
an ex isn't an ex for nothing tho

You're from Rotterdam.. you know the drill there... an ex is a girl who you haven't slept with in 3 days.. could change within the hour..



 

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NiKKoM on 25 November 2014

btw... Mr Kahn never got the phone number?



 

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