| Mr Khan said: But you're also supposed to push them to dance with you? This is where it gets confusing. The "hunting" versus this line about not being able to force it (although i very much agree that you can't force it. The feeling is either there or it isn't, but where, then, does effort enter the equation?) |
The hunting is not about you going after them.. But to make them going after you.. Yes thats confusing.. Its basicly showing sides of you till she thinks; i'm may fall in love with this guy.. I want him.. You tease.. You push a little.. Till they push back.. You create, not force, a situation where the other person can get to know you for a bit and let them decide if they want to go forward with you.. its very easy to try too hard, which scares people away (sorry trash)
You already asked to start the dance with her.. Its up to you to give her enough encouragement to keep the dance going.. you lead but there will be the time that she starts to lead.. And you let her.. Cause then you're really dancing together..
Ps: Iet her lower your hand to her butt.. You never force that..
Face the future.. Gamecenter ID: nikkom_nl (oh no he didn't!!)
