The Romantic Advice Thread

[Mr Khan]

NiKKoM said:

trashleg said:

But what are the chances that I'll fall in love with someone who falls in love with me too? That's impossible.

It takes time.. The dance its longer.. There are a lot of people who say "if we don't get together you're never gonna see me again"... Trying to force a relationship.. Just being with eachother isn't enough.. You can't force someone to love you.. Which in the end will lead to meaningless relationships.. Its never gonna work. Too much icecream with a waffle isn't good. One day you'll find out.. When everything clicks together like a perfect blend of icecream and waffle creating something amazing together. And you will think "is this what NiKKoM talked about?".. Yes it is.. Yes it is

But you're also supposed to push them to dance with you? This is where it gets confusing. The "hunting" versus this line about not being able to force it (although i very much agree that you can't force it. The feeling is either there or it isn't, but where, then, does effort enter the equation?)