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Lost interest at the part where he sold the car. You should learn how to filter the insignificant things



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I dont know how to feel, but I do. Ive been in 2 fist fights with step dad when I was younger. I think ur wrong for resenting him for selling his own property but the whole talkin shit thing is out of line.! EDIT - I am a new driver bout a year and half now. Finding cars to drive in is hard when one is not provided..I understand that. Save up, by your own car then get a friend to help you thats what I did. You come off as kind of entitled a few times. Your not.



Hold up, he sells his own car and you get madbecause you dont know why? First of all he has every right to sell it. Secondly, he doesnt need to explain why he did to you.

As for not helping him. Are you kidding? The guy cooks dinner and teaches you driving when he has the time or will and you think you are good enough not to help with something.



Yes, u were wrong. The dude is handicapped!! Wats wrong with u? How old r u???



AnthonyW86 said:
Hewas harrassing you will he was sitting in his chair and you where walking away?.... I think you need to look up what harrassing means.


What are you talking about? I walked away and told him I respected my mother too much but he wouldnt stop harassing me. He continued going on and on. 



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pezus said:
This may have been the most detailed description I've seen here in a while.

Just out of curiosity, how old are you and your step dad?


He's maybe 52 and I'm 20. I had enough with his harassment towards me. I wanted to give him what he had coming but I tried walking away. I tried ignoring him but he wouldnt leave me alone.



Well, it seems that he does a lot to help out in the house. Maybe if you start helping him out on some errands he wouldn't be mean to you.



I think you were and this is why.

First off, you complain about how someone won't do this or that for you. Then you say that you can't do things when they want because of your conditions. This right away sounds like you expect everything to work your way, in what benefits you best.

Why do I think that? Simple. You want him to help you out and if he doesn't, you get pissed. Meanwhile, when he complains that you don't help out around the house and you state that it because you don't do things for nothing.

If you want help, then you better expect to give it too. People don't give you shit for free and then when they want help in return you ask for compensation.


You seem to have underlying issues and I think you need to find someone to help you. Now, I don't mean that to offend. It just seems you are way too full of aggression and if people don't do what you want in the manner you want them to then you get angry with them.

The world doesn't revolve around you. You live in that house. It is your job to help out around the house and around the yard and not just cleaning your own dishes.

If I were him (From the story I just read here), I wouldn't be happy with you either.


Him not fighting back is also not a sign of him being a pussy, but rather that he bitches in hopes that you will do something other than expect everyone else to do everything for you. Obviously this failed and you instead resulted to attacking him physically.


So yes, you were wrong. You were very wrong.

 

The man cooks you food, teaches you to drive, sounds like he does the yard work and brings in income. If not for him it sounds like (From your own words) everything would fall on your mother instead. You shouldn't be mad at him, you should be thankful.

Get over yourself.



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Talal said:
Well, it seems that he does a lot to help out in the house. Maybe if you start helping him out on some errands he wouldn't be mean to you.


No, he cooks. He doesn't even do that all the time. I make my own food when I have to and have no problems doing do. I never ask him for anything. I'm not going to do favors when he doesn't help me out with anything after he gave me word. I forgot to mention it but there has been a few times where he confronted me on resolving our problems and telling me he would help me out. Selling his car did not help me out. He broke his word.



Euphoria14 said:
I think you were and this is why.

First off, you complain about how someone won't do this or that for you. Then you say that you can't do things when they want because of your conditions. This right away sounds like you expect everything to work your way, in what benefits you best.

Why do I think that? Simple. You want him to help you out and if he doesn't, you get pissed. Meanwhile, when he complains that you don't help out around the house and you state that it because you don't do things for nothing.

If you want help, then you better expect to give it too. People don't give you shit for free and then when they want help in return you ask for compensation.


You seem to have underlying issues and I think you need to find someone to help you. Now, I don't mean that to offend. It just seems you are way too full of aggression and if people don't do what you want in the manner you want them to then you get angry with them.

The world doesn't revolve around you. You live in that house. It is your job to help out around the house and around the yard and not just cleaning your own dishes.

If I were him (From the story I just read here), I wouldn't be happy with you either.


Him not fighting back is also not a sign of him being a pussy, but rather that he bitches in hopes that you will do something other than expect everyone else to do everything for you. Obviously this failed and you instead resulted to attacking him physically.


So yes, you were wrong. You were very wrong.


You missed what I said. I said he broke his work and he did. He gave me his word that he would help me out and he lied to me and made false promises that he couldn't deliver. This has happened a few times.