I beat up my step dad. Was I wrong in doing so? (Long read)

[Euphoria14]

I think you were and this is why.

First off, you complain about how someone won't do this or that for you. Then you say that you can't do things when they want because of your conditions. This right away sounds like you expect everything to work your way, in what benefits you best.

Why do I think that? Simple. You want him to help you out and if he doesn't, you get pissed. Meanwhile, when he complains that you don't help out around the house and you state that it because you don't do things for nothing.

If you want help, then you better expect to give it too. People don't give you shit for free and then when they want help in return you ask for compensation.


You seem to have underlying issues and I think you need to find someone to help you. Now, I don't mean that to offend. It just seems you are way too full of aggression and if people don't do what you want in the manner you want them to then you get angry with them.

The world doesn't revolve around you. You live in that house. It is your job to help out around the house and around the yard and not just cleaning your own dishes.

If I were him (From the story I just read here), I wouldn't be happy with you either.


Him not fighting back is also not a sign of him being a pussy, but rather that he bitches in hopes that you will do something other than expect everyone else to do everything for you. Obviously this failed and you instead resulted to attacking him physically.


So yes, you were wrong. You were very wrong.

 

The man cooks you food, teaches you to drive, sounds like he does the yard work and brings in income. If not for him it sounds like (From your own words) everything would fall on your mother instead. You shouldn't be mad at him, you should be thankful.

Get over yourself.