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Lack of girlfriend, lack of motivation to work, lack of money, lack of motivation to work to make money, lack of motivation to pursue a girlfriend...

Yeah, depressed. :P



Never doing anything to achieve my ambition.
Getting older and realising life is no longer a party, the party has been replaced with bills, mortgage and a career etc,
Self doubt



spurgeonryan said:
Millenium said:
Lack of girlfriend, lack of motivation to work, lack of money, lack of motivation to work to make money, lack of motivation to pursue a girlfriend...

Yeah, depressed. :P


Telling girls that you frequent a vg sales sites forums does not Wow them?

Well I tried that once, but that  only attracted the clingy types, it was suddenly "Marry me" this, and "Have babies with me" that... :/

 



trasharmdsister12 said:
spurgeonryan said:
Millenium said:
Lack of girlfriend, lack of motivation to work, lack of money, lack of motivation to work to make money, lack of motivation to pursue a girlfriend...

Yeah, depressed. :P

Telling girls that you frequent a vg sales sites forums does not Wow them?

It may be intended as a joke but if you aimed that any lower, Millenium Marcus would be taking a Spurgeon to the knee.

I don't have the energy or patience to seek a relationship anymore. I'm going to stop trying to live seeking something like that, and just share what I have to give with any one in need. It's like Shad says in Keep Shining,"I used to want to find the love of my life, now I'm trying to live a life of love. It's not just a husband or wife thing, it's something that Christ brings". Now I may not be Christian, but the message is universal. 

Work is busy and I don't feel like I'm getting enough done, despite putting in 10 hour work days with extra reading. I don't feel I'm improving fast enough. I feel like I can and I need to give more. It's a welcome problem for me, although I wish I could think more of myself.


Ah yeah, unfortunately I'm in that zone as well currently, I've been trying to actively pursue a relationship for the past 3 years, but it's been to no avail so I've stopped doing it for now, as you're right that it can really suck both patience and energy out of you.

Is itreally that bad for you right now, I mean are you achieving the set goals within the company for your project?

If you are, then I really advice you to take just a little bit of time for yourself, doing 10 hour work days and constantly learning new stuff besides that (Especially in the programming field) can really suck it out of you.



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> The fear that 2012 is really the year of the apocalyps so we won't have the time to play the Wii U

Seriously...

> To feel that now I'm wasting my time and I will regret that once I get older.
> Not having a girlfriend even if I'm not fat nor ugly. My family keeps asking me why I'm still single.

So what I do:

> Try to do as much things as I can with my friends while they are here
> Go to parties, enjoy life.
> Talk to new people all the time. (Since I do that, I always want to make some new friends, weird)
> Ignore the girlfriend issue. (It hurts, trust me)



 

The video says it better than myself



Well this thread depressed me greatly. Also my complete failure to write 2 research papers due in a day. Going to severely hurt my grades. Also I need to work up the courage to do some stuff I've put off for far too long.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F1gWECYYOSo

Please Watch/Share this video so it gets shown in Hollywood.

Not wanting to get up anymore.
Coming to the realization that all I feel is emptiness.
Being alone.
All I think about every second is death or pain.
Hopelessness.
Painfull memories.
I Feel wasted, untalented.
Rambling obsessive thoughts.
Everything that once gave me pleasure doesn't anymore.



tonymarraffa said:
Not wanting to get up anymore.
Coming to the realization that all I feel is emptiness.
Being alone.
All I think about every second is death or pain.
Hopelessness.
Painfull memories.
I Feel wasted, untalented.
Rambling obsessive thoughts.
Everything that once gave me pleasure doesn't anymore.

Wow... you might (seriously) need help with that. Not trying to sound mean, though.