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trashleg on 20 January 2010
mrs.nordlead said:
i think that the maturity level is important not just for getting married, but it plays a big role in weather or not you are mature enough to determine if you are really with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with...is it love or just infatuation, will the relationship be able to withstand all the crap and hardship that life brings and are you mature enough to stick with the person through it all or will you bail at the first sign of problems. are you mature enough to be unselfish and not bail when things arent going your way...too many people dont take marriage seriously and figure, well, if things dont work out we can always get a divorce. it takes a lot of hard work and selflessness to make a marriage work and there are a lot of people, irregardless of age, that just arent ready or willing to make the sacrifice that being married takes. obviously there are a lot of other factors that play into it like compatibility, finances, and things like that...but as for age or maturity, maturity is more important, and obviously your age plays a part in your maturity.(but i have to go feed a baby and make nordlead his dinner, so i have no more time to give any more words of wisdom :D )

i agree with a lot of this :)

if i was gonna spend my life with someone, i'd want it to be someone who's willing to ride the storm with me, cover my back when i'm shootin up bad folks. Basically, someone willing to be the Elena to my Nate.

also, if you're feeding baby why isnt nordlead making dinner? >:O



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.
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Scoobes on 20 January 2010

If real-life was like a Final Fantasy then about 12.

Seriously though, in the UK the average wedding costs £20,000 so my answer is basically when you can afford the damn thing. That of course encompasses a lot of what other people have said. When you're both financially stable and when you're sure you can live with each other. This age can vary a lot depending on careers, maturity and how rich your parents are!




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O-D-C on 20 January 2010

Id say 18 as minimum sounds about right



oldschoolfool on 20 January 2010
trashleg said:
mrs.nordlead said:
i think that the maturity level is important not just for getting married, but it plays a big role in weather or not you are mature enough to determine if you are really with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with...is it love or just infatuation, will the relationship be able to withstand all the crap and hardship that life brings and are you mature enough to stick with the person through it all or will you bail at the first sign of problems. are you mature enough to be unselfish and not bail when things arent going your way...too many people dont take marriage seriously and figure, well, if things dont work out we can always get a divorce. it takes a lot of hard work and selflessness to make a marriage work and there are a lot of people, irregardless of age, that just arent ready or willing to make the sacrifice that being married takes. obviously there are a lot of other factors that play into it like compatibility, finances, and things like that...but as for age or maturity, maturity is more important, and obviously your age plays a part in your maturity.(but i have to go feed a baby and make nordlead his dinner, so i have no more time to give any more words of wisdom :D )

i agree with a lot of this :)

if i was gonna spend my life with someone, i'd want it to be someone who's willing to ride the storm with me, cover my back when i'm shootin up bad folks. Basically, someone willing to be the Elena to my Nate.

also, if you're feeding baby why isnt nordlead making dinner? >:O


okay, what's up trashleg!!!!! lol



trashleg on 20 January 2010
oldschoolfool said:
trashleg said:

i agree with a lot of this :)

if i was gonna spend my life with someone, i'd want it to be someone who's willing to ride the storm with me, cover my back when i'm shootin up bad folks. Basically, someone willing to be the Elena to my Nate.

also, if you're feeding baby why isnt nordlead making dinner? >:O


okay, what's up trashleg!!!!! lol

lol what you mean?



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.
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oldschoolfool on 20 January 2010
trashleg said:
oldschoolfool said:
trashleg said:

i agree with a lot of this :)

if i was gonna spend my life with someone, i'd want it to be someone who's willing to ride the storm with me, cover my back when i'm shootin up bad folks. Basically, someone willing to be the Elena to my Nate.

also, if you're feeding baby why isnt nordlead making dinner? >:O


okay, what's up trashleg!!!!! lol

lol what you mean?


Are you old enough to marry? I'll be your nate!!!!! lol



Scoobes on 20 January 2010

^Lol, is this some bizzare VGchartz proposal?




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oldschoolfool on 20 January 2010

I'm just kidding. Please don't ban me



trashleg on 20 January 2010
oldschoolfool said:
trashleg said:
oldschoolfool said:


okay, what's up trashleg!!!!! lol

lol what you mean?


Are you old enough to marry? I'll be your nate!!!!! lol

haha, im nearly 21 (4 days to go! :O ) so yah, i am

but i think you read me wrong.. im the nate, you'd have to be the elena

and relax, i know you're kidding i just didnt understand your first post



Highwaystar101 said: trashleg said that if I didn't pay back the money she leant me, she would come round and break my legs... That's why people call her trashleg, because she trashes the legs of the people she loan sharks money to.