coolbeans said:
noname2200 said:
coolbeans said:
I guess it wasn't right on the ball but I must ask, do you know the full defintion of offensive (serious question) because my first answer back was a correct example.
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http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/offensive
–adjective
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causing resentful displeasure; highly irritating, angering, or annoying: offensive television commercials. |
| 2. |
unpleasant or disagreeable to the sense: an offensive odor. |
| 3. |
repugnant to the moral sense, good taste, or the like; insulting: an offensive remark; an offensive joke. |
| 4. |
pertaining to offense or attack: the offensive movements of their troops. |
| 5. |
characterized by attack; aggressive: offensive warfare. |
Now that we have a definition, I repeat: explain yourself. You have five options. Apply it to one.
And a hint before you begin: if you pick option 3, prepare to analytically apply it.
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Re...Really? How can the case not be made for number 1? Surely you can see by the example I gave that it can cause a displeasure or a type of resentment in the first case I brought up.
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I fear it can not: unless one is homophobic, I can see no reason why acknowledging the existence of same-sex relations would cause "resentful displeasure."
Recall that your original response to why the word "lesbian" might be "offensive" was "parents of younger children who don't think they're ready to understand the "birds and the bees" no matter what the sexual orientation and XBL might not be the best reason why that comes up."
You've made a point of assuming that a child exists whose parents will somehow stop him/her from ever having to question intimate relations (something which will involve censoring nearly all forms of media, as well as shielding them from displays of affection), but whose same parents will magically allow this child to not only have unfettered access to Xbox-Live, but also to browse the assorted profiles of complete strangers. Forgive me if I find this scenario implausible.
But let us assume this one-in-a-trillion occurence comes to pass. What is so shocking and harmful to a child to be told that a lesbian is a woman who loves another woman? Where is the harm in being told that a human being can love another human being, even in a heterosexual relationship? You've equated the two in this thread. And yet I feel certain that all of us, yourself included, were informed of that salicious fact very early in our lives. I don't think that reality scarred me. Are you prepared to say that it scarred you, to the point where it would be "offensive" to "force" a parent to tell his/her child that yes, adults fall in love with each other?