See, it all has to do with simple economics...and you don't seem to understand it very well if you think microsoft is stupid for not duking it out with Sony for second place this holiday season.
Microsoft
-Microsoft does not lose money on hardware and they would probably like to keep it that way
-They have a wide enough userbase and their console sells enough games that they can sustain healthy business without losing money on hardware at this point
-MS charges for XBL, and people are willing to pay (worth every penny). Another source of income
Sony
-does not have a confortable system userbase yet due to being in 3rd place is sales, hence doesnt sell as much software. Not as much royalties as Microsoft from software sales.
- still loses money on hardware
- does not charge for online service
So while you are right that MS is going to finish 3rd in console sales this holiday...they really dont need to bend over backwards to compete with PS3 for each console sold. They have a healty business model that is profitable at this point.
I think 2010 will be a bloodbath...great software on both sides, 360 price cut, and natal vs sony wand. Only then will we see who wins the HD console race this gen.











