In most western democracies it is perfectly legal to talk about where and how to pick up people for premarital sex. Perhaps it would be controversial - but that is another matter.
The thing is in the west the things held most dear are human rights, generally those as set out in the Universal Declaration of Human Rights (with some rights being more important than others). That's why we are so grossly offended by things like this. It is an affront to both the right to not be subjected to cruel or inhuman punishment and the right to free speech.
Now Abu Gharib is not a valid example of western hypocrisy as that was not sanctioned by the government and indeed the offenders were punished as criminals.
Guantanamo Bay is a more valid example of hypocrisy for America at least as it does deny detainees human rights - a lot of people in the west wish for it to be shut down for this reason.










