Well obviously if you aren't getting any action you need to find a new life partner.

He said we can do anything I want but I told him I don't want to do anything sexual at first.

If he is willing to go all the way I think it is fine. Just watch out because if he is really, really wanting it bad he may download some questionable material (like Yaoi fanfiction)

Seece said: Esmoreit said: Oh and for the people complaining about the age difference - Honestly, for first-timing experience is the way to go. Who didn't fantasize about their first time before it happened, probably with a famous person many years older then you were. Or the senior in high school, or whatever. And when it happens, well... let's say I was glad that I did it with someone 6 years older then me with a lot more experience. That way it was and still is one of the best experiences possible in my lifetime. Now, when I hear stories about people who lost their virginity at 16 with someone there age and it was merely awkward, fast and unsatisfying... honestly, if you have the chance chose someone a lot more experienced then you for the first time. This 100% My first time was with someone incredibly incompetant. But now being more older/experienced I'm attracted to virgins ...

Thinking about it, this actually makes quite a bit of sense. I know that I lost mine to a friend several years ago; we still keep in touch, even though the distance is a bitch. However, he was as experienced as I, which led to awkward times. However, my RL shyness means that I really don't get much of an opportunity (So I guess this post is also a bookmark on this thread for me?), so while I can't still call myself a virgin, I can call myself woefully inexperienced. But I'll admit that I wouldn't have given that up even in hindsight. I just... wish to break out of my shell...

*looks at last post as of the typing of this post* Yaoi fanfics aren't bad material. Well, check that, SOME of them aren't bad. There's questionable stuff in pretty much every area, though. Hell, I enjoy a good yaoi story. The only thing to remember is that if you think that life and a relationship is as it is in the story, think again. Someone believing it is may be a good sign of their naivity.

axumblade said: The Ghost of RubangB said: Chairman-Mao said: oh my God wayy to much information, that's nasty. Keep that sort of stuff to yourself please. One time I got a pimple on my penis.  I actually freaked out and thought it was an STD myself for a few hours before I came to my senses and realized what it was.  But anyway, I wasn't about to go around with no zit on my wang.  So I cauterized a needle and stabbed into the fucker.  Now I have a battle scar, and since it's on really stretchy tissue that can ya know, get really big when the time is right, it looks really funny. If you don't want the battle scar, put lots of aloe on it before and after you break it.  And if you don't break it, just put lots of aloe on it every morning and night to help it heal smoothly. *reverts to fetal position crying in agony* O.O Also, Any other gaymers want to go onto the gaymer list? I have to ask this in every gay thread since we always have about 2-3 people come out in threads about gays. :)

I thought I mentioned to someone a while back to feel free to add me to the list; maybe I didn't? *shrugs*

Oh, and yeah, it does sound painful if broken there...

I had a nice time. The movie was interesting(Paranormal activity).
The movie theater was packed... Every seat filled. We sat way in the front.

After the movie we got stoned in the car... I was being very shy again but I got more comfortable with him after he touched my thy. I held his hand. He has soft hands for a guy... He tried to go higher on my thy and touch me but I said not yet, and we both chuckled.

We tried to kiss but I drew back and told him I wasn't comfortable with kissing yet, he said he understood, we both smiled... The beard is too creepy.

I asked him if he would be willing to shave his pubes, he said he would trim them, I guess that's alright. Lots of pubes is gross. We finished our joint.

Then we went to burger king and split and order of chicken fries, normal fries, and coke. He says being with me reminds him of being a kid again because I'm so shy, he said it's fun.  I told him he's a lot cuter when he smiles, and he told me I'm really cute smiling or not. That made me feel good.

He drove me home, and I gave him a hug goodbye... There was lots of other random talking, but that's the important stuff. I am really turned on right now... I'm glad he made the first move because I was too shy.

WessleWoggle said: I had a nice time. The movie was interesting(Paranormal activity). The movie theater was packed... Every seat filled. We sat way in the front. After the movie we got stoned in the car... I was being very shy again but I got more comfortable with him after he touched my thy. I held his hand. He has soft hands for a guy... He tried to go higher on my thy and touch me but I said not yet, and we both chuckled. We tried to kiss but I drew back and told him I wasn't comfortable with kissing yet, he said he understood, we both smiled... The beard is too creepy. I asked him if he would be willing to shave his pubes, he said he would trim them, I guess that's alright. Lots of pubes is gross. We finished our joint. Then we went to burger king and split and order of chicken fries, normal fries, and coke. He says being with me reminds him of being a kid again because I'm so shy, he said it's fun.  I told him he's a lot cuter when he smiles, and he told me I'm really cute smiling or not. That made me feel good. He drove me home, and I gave him a hug goodbye... There was lots of other random talking, but that's the important stuff. I am really turned on right now... I'm glad he made the first move because I was too shy.

congratulations!. looks like your going serious with the guy. this is the same guy from before that is a little bit old right??. well as long as you are happy. at least you have a boyfriend i only have Ms. lonely. i have never had a boyfriend before. i am trying to find one but is to hard jajajaja!!!. i have dates and dates and more dates but none of them end up being something more than a date. i havent even fall in love before. jajaja. god i am so pathetic. jajaja!!. anyway that doesnt matter. congrats!!.

luisgvm said: WessleWoggle said: I had a nice time. The movie was interesting(Paranormal activity). The movie theater was packed... Every seat filled. We sat way in the front. After the movie we got stoned in the car... I was being very shy again but I got more comfortable with him after he touched my thy. I held his hand. He has soft hands for a guy... He tried to go higher on my thy and touch me but I said not yet, and we both chuckled. We tried to kiss but I drew back and told him I wasn't comfortable with kissing yet, he said he understood, we both smiled... The beard is too creepy. I asked him if he would be willing to shave his pubes, he said he would trim them, I guess that's alright. Lots of pubes is gross. We finished our joint. Then we went to burger king and split and order of chicken fries, normal fries, and coke. He says being with me reminds him of being a kid again because I'm so shy, he said it's fun.  I told him he's a lot cuter when he smiles, and he told me I'm really cute smiling or not. That made me feel good. He drove me home, and I gave him a hug goodbye... There was lots of other random talking, but that's the important stuff. I am really turned on right now... I'm glad he made the first move because I was too shy. congratulations!. looks like your going serious with the guy. this is the same guy from before that is a little bit old right??. well as long as you are happy. at least you have a boyfriend i only have Ms. lonely. i have never had a boyfriend before. i am trying to find one but is to hard jajajaja!!!. i have dates and dates and more dates but none of them end up being something more than a date. i havent even fall in love before. jajaja. god i am so pathetic. jajaja!!. anyway that doesnt matter. congrats!!.

jajaja!!??

Is that the way you laugh in Venezuela? lol

@luis

Yes this is the same guy as before.
I'm lucky I found a very nice and understaning guy with similar interests.
I wish we lived in the same town, so I could see him more often.
He has a house here, but he lives a few towns over.

Boutros said: luisgvm said: WessleWoggle said: I had a nice time. The movie was interesting(Paranormal activity). The movie theater was packed... Every seat filled. We sat way in the front. After the movie we got stoned in the car... I was being very shy again but I got more comfortable with him after he touched my thy. I held his hand. He has soft hands for a guy... He tried to go higher on my thy and touch me but I said not yet, and we both chuckled. We tried to kiss but I drew back and told him I wasn't comfortable with kissing yet, he said he understood, we both smiled... The beard is too creepy. I asked him if he would be willing to shave his pubes, he said he would trim them, I guess that's alright. Lots of pubes is gross. We finished our joint. Then we went to burger king and split and order of chicken fries, normal fries, and coke. He says being with me reminds him of being a kid again because I'm so shy, he said it's fun.  I told him he's a lot cuter when he smiles, and he told me I'm really cute smiling or not. That made me feel good. He drove me home, and I gave him a hug goodbye... There was lots of other random talking, but that's the important stuff. I am really turned on right now... I'm glad he made the first move because I was too shy. congratulations!. looks like your going serious with the guy. this is the same guy from before that is a little bit old right??. well as long as you are happy. at least you have a boyfriend i only have Ms. lonely. i have never had a boyfriend before. i am trying to find one but is to hard jajajaja!!!. i have dates and dates and more dates but none of them end up being something more than a date. i havent even fall in love before. jajaja. god i am so pathetic. jajaja!!. anyway that doesnt matter. congrats!!. jajaja!!?? Is that the way you laugh in Venezuela? lol

jajajaja!!!. yes. i dont know i think latinos put jajaja and US americans put hahaha. but is the same thing jejeje!!.