Any gay dating advice?

[dunno001]

Seece said:

Esmoreit said:
Oh and for the people complaining about the age difference -

Honestly, for first-timing experience is the way to go. Who didn't fantasize about their first time before it happened, probably with a famous person many years older then you were. Or the senior in high school, or whatever.

And when it happens, well... let's say I was glad that I did it with someone 6 years older then me with a lot more experience. That way it was and still is one of the best experiences possible in my lifetime. Now, when I hear stories about people who lost their virginity at 16 with someone there age and it was merely awkward, fast and unsatisfying...

honestly, if you have the chance chose someone a lot more experienced then you for the first time.

This 100%

My first time was with someone incredibly incompetant. But now being more older/experienced I'm attracted to virgins ...

Thinking about it, this actually makes quite a bit of sense. I know that I lost mine to a friend several years ago; we still keep in touch, even though the distance is a bitch. However, he was as experienced as I, which led to awkward times. However, my RL shyness means that I really don't get much of an opportunity (So I guess this post is also a bookmark on this thread for me?), so while I can't still call myself a virgin, I can call myself woefully inexperienced. But I'll admit that I wouldn't have given that up even in hindsight. I just... wish to break out of my shell...

*looks at last post as of the typing of this post* Yaoi fanfics aren't bad material. Well, check that, SOME of them aren't bad. There's questionable stuff in pretty much every area, though. Hell, I enjoy a good yaoi story. The only thing to remember is that if you think that life and a relationship is as it is in the story, think again. Someone believing it is may be a good sign of their naivity.