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sounds like the two of you had a good time. one thing that struck me though is that it seems a bit weird that a 30 something year old would want to be "friends" with a 17 year old. the maturity levels are so much different. i don't know either of you in person of course, but the likelihood that you both have the same mental maturity seems almost impossible. what did you like most about him?



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WessleWoggle said:
Okay guys, our date went great. We met in front of the mall and went and smoked in his car. He was a very interesting person, and he looks a lot younger in person. He does have a terrorist beard right now though, I'm going to tell him he has to shave it before we do anything. He told me he was very worried about meeting a 17 year old. He said if there was anyone else with me he would have ran from fear of being beat up. At that point I told him that I had a chain, and he didn't think it was weird or anything, he understood. He was very understanding. I didn't want to go to his house at first, and he understood. After we gone done smoking and talking I felt I knew him a little better, we went to his house.

It's like 15 mins out in the woods... Creepy! But it's very very beautiful, it's two story(ish). The top story is on the ground, but it's built right by an incline, so the house goes off the incline and is supported by beams and the lower story. It has big windows with a beautiful view of the river. It's such a nice place...

We chilled and drank a beer and smoked. He told me if I wanted to do anything sexual all I had to do was say. But he says regardless of if we hook up sexually, he would still like to be friends because he think's I'm a cool person. We share similar interests(yoga, health). I think he's a cool person too, he's one of the best guitar players I've seen, and he plays with so much passion. He is also into hallucinogenics. I could have got some shrooms last night if I wanted.

His past relationships have been mostly (crazy) women, but he did mess around with guys when he was younger. He told me he doesn't like kissing guys and find it's weird unless the moment is right. He told me a lot of stuff he shouldn't have too, about weed growing and such. Why do new friends seem to trust me with sensitive information the first or second time they meet me? Do I really come off that trustworthy? I got shy towards the end of the night because there was too much sex talk. But he didn't pressure me at all, I actually might have been up for giving and taking some head if it wasn't for my damn pimple.

I'm going to call him again to day for a talk about what I want from the relationship. First, I'm telling him to get rid of the terrorist beard. Second, I'm telling him I don't want to do anything sexual right away but he's a cool person and I would like to be friends.

I felt like I should have hugged him goodbye... But as I said I got really shy towards the end of the night.

Sounds like a good date

 

I'm glad it all worked out and he isn't a creeper/killer/etc.



"First, I'm telling him to get rid of the terrorist beard."

You should really take him for him and not demand anythiing ...



 

SimonSaysFYou said:
sounds like the two of you had a good time. one thing that struck me though is that it seems a bit weird that a 30 something year old would want to be "friends" with a 17 year old. the maturity levels are so much different. i don't know either of you in person of course, but the likelihood that you both have the same mental maturity seems almost impossible. what did you like most about him?


I am very mature for my age. It's not really weird, he just moved here and he doesn't know anyone. He wanted a casual relationship, someone to be friends with and do sexual things with. Most gay dudes here just want to bone done or suck cock, not be in a relationship. He's not with me because I'm 17, he was actually really worried about that.

What did I like about him? I liked his calm personality, he was easy to talk too, he wasn't pressuring me to do anything. We share similar interests, we both smoke, he knows where to get hallucenogenic drugs, he looks a lot younger in person than in that picture, and he's very mellow and young acting. He thinks my goal to be a ninja is cool, he thinks we could learn things from eachother about health and fitness. We share similar values about life and philosophy...



Seece said:
"First, I'm telling him to get rid of the terrorist beard."

You should really take him for him and not demand anythiing ...


The beard is a turn off. I can't get intimate with someone that turns me off.



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WessleWoggle said:
Seece said:
"First, I'm telling him to get rid of the terrorist beard."

You should really take him for him and not demand anythiing ...


The beard is a turn off. I can't get intimate with someone that turns me off.

That's fair enough, maybe you should suggest it first though ...



 

He already said he's planning to get rid of it the first time he mentioned it, so it's no problem.



WessleWoggle said:
SimonSaysFYou said:
sounds like the two of you had a good time. one thing that struck me though is that it seems a bit weird that a 30 something year old would want to be "friends" with a 17 year old. the maturity levels are so much different. i don't know either of you in person of course, but the likelihood that you both have the same mental maturity seems almost impossible. what did you like most about him?


I am very mature for my age. It's not really weird, he just moved here and he doesn't know anyone. He wanted a casual relationship, someone to be friends with and do sexual things with. Most gay dudes here just want to bone done or suck cock, not be in a relationship. He's not with me because I'm 17, he was actually really worried about that.

What did I like about him? I liked his calm personality, he was easy to talk too, he wasn't pressuring me to do anything. We share similar interests, we both smoke, he knows where to get hallucenogenic drugs, he looks a lot younger in person than in that picture, and he's very mellow and young acting. He thinks my goal to be a ninja is cool, he thinks we could learn things from eachother about health and fitness. We share similar values about life and philosophy...

Wow, so you really are serious about this ninja business. That shit is fucking awesome.

Don't forget about me when you're a full fledged ninja!



angrypoolman said:

Wow, so you really are serious about this ninja business. That shit is fucking awesome.

Don't forget about me when you're a full fledged ninja!


Yes, I'm serious about this ninja business.

I work out every day towards a flexible and powerful ninja phisique with yoga, strength training, weight training, isometrics, weaponry training, and lots of martial arts training. I do lots of different strikes like punches, chops,  palm strikes, finger jabs, elbow strikes, knee strikes, foward kick, side kicks, roundhouse kicks, hook kicks, inverted roundhouse kicks, inverted hook kicks, backwards kicks, backwards hook kicks, backwards roundhouse kicks, inverted backwards roundhouse kick(very hard), inverted backwards hook kick(very hard), jumping and spinning version of all the kicks I just mentioned. I know a lot of different forms of the same kick ass well, using different parts of your feet like the heel, ball, top, bottom, side, and shin. I know a lot of punching and striking forms but there's way too many to list here, the list for arm strikes I can do is way longer than that list of kicks I just made. You can also shift your feet in different ways to make it a different form of the same strike or kick. There's a lot of fancy names for kick and strike forms, but I really can't remember them all, I only remember the motion...

I read books about different fighting forms, I'm studying Bruce Lee and doing his workouts...

After high school I'm going to save up 5000$ dollars and go to a ninja training island in Thailand.

 



WessleWoggle said:
angrypoolman said:

Wow, so you really are serious about this ninja business. That shit is fucking awesome.

Don't forget about me when you're a full fledged ninja!


Yes, I'm serious about this ninja business.

I work out every day towards a flexible and powerful ninja phisique with yoga, strength training, weight training, isometrics, weaponry training, and lots of martial arts training. I do lots of different strikes like punches, chops,  palm strikes, finger jabs, elbow strikes, knee strikes, foward kick, side kicks, roundhouse kicks, hook kicks, inverted roundhouse kicks, inverted hook kicks, backwards kicks, backwards hook kicks, backwards roundhouse kicks, inverted backwards roundhouse kick(very hard), inverted backwards hook kick(very hard), jumping and spinning version of all the kicks I just mentioned. I know a lot of different forms of the same kick ass well, using different parts of your feet like the heel, ball, top, bottom, side, and shin. I know a lot of punching and striking forms but there's way too many to list here, the list for arm strikes I can do is way longer than that list of kicks I just made. You can also shift your feet in different ways to make it a different form of the same strike or kick. There's a lot of fancy names for kick and strike forms, but I really can't remember them all, I only remember the motion...

I read books about different fighting forms, I'm studying Bruce Lee and doing his workouts...

After high school I'm going to save up 5000$ dollars and go to a ninja training island in Thailand.

 

What... the fuck.

I'm speechless.

Are you still going to be on VGC when you're in Thailand?